"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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No more buts

thecraftylefty

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No More Buts!

From now on I don’t want to read any more excuses for someone’s lack of progress, results, whatever it is someone is searching for. It doesn’t matter if you’re in the crappiest situation ever, get over it.

But everything is just too hard. Too bad.

But someone else looks better than me. They have it so much easier. Too bad.

But that guy has money and has cool stuff that I don’t. Too bad.

Enough with the buts! There will be no more of them. Buts have never made any situation better. Buts don’t make friends. Buts have actually held you back and sheltered you in your safe world. Get the hell out of that world. Break out. The world can be a great place for you if you make it so. Start telling yourself that you do have what it takes.

But I’m just no good with people. Learn to be good with people.

But girls don’t like me. Learn to make girls like you.

But I just can’t do it. That’s what a quitter says. Own the fvck up.

You do have self worth. You’ve just buried it under the crap and crevices that you’ve grown accustomed to. Throw that entire mindset out and start anew.

Do you think every successful person always had things go their way? Hell no. They had to struggle and fail so much that they wished death would have come and swept them away. Yet they still pressed on and kept pushing past the false barriers put up in their minds. That is what separates the winners from the ones who give up.

What the mind believes the body achieves. If you can let yourself imagine that you really do have it inside you, it’ll also find ways to attain those grandiose dreams held deep inside you. Let them out to play, for today is the best day to start all over again.

Every passing minute is a chance to turn it all around.

thecraftylefty
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Truely inspirational. :up:
 
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