"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
No money
- Thread starter oranges
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Sure, you can treat her, but as soon as you begin looking for approval by paying for her, you've entered AFC territory.
Alfie Crew
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
PeterNorthisawesome
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If she wants you to pay all the time that is bad. If she won't let you pay at all than that's a sign she isn't interested as well. Then again high school girls are stupid maybe she really has no money, but it's more likeley she has no interest. Depending on how close you are with this girl I would tell her you will spot her to get her to come. Just don't ever expect to get your money back. If she comes back to give you the money that is good, but don't take it.
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
Offer to pay. If she says no she is not intrested...Originally posted by oranges
I invite a chick out she ses she cant go because she has no $ , if i offer to pay am i being AFC?
bearing in mind its only $10
Say something like "I tell you what. Come out and i will treat you this time."
Just make sure its this time or you go AFC.