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You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I invite a chick out she ses she cant go because she has no $ , if i offer to pay am i being AFC?

bearing in mind its only $10
 

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If its only ten dollars, it sounds like she is just trying to say "No, thanks" to you, but in nice way. If she really was interested in you she could come up with the $10, and hang out with you. Just my take on it....but I am not in the situation.
 
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I don't think it's being an AFC. Would you pay once in a while if you were out with friends? I would, but not every single time.

Sure, you can treat her, but as soon as you begin looking for approval by paying for her, you've entered AFC territory.
 
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I don't think its AFC at all, but it depends on the situation if you should.
 

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Pay this time and if she asks next time tell her that she should borrow from her parents or get a job first before she can come on date with you again. If she doesn't u know that she's just a gold digger and isnt interested.
 
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yeah dude it sounds like she isn't interested. I was in a similar situation once, too bad i couldn't see it when it was happening. I offered to pay, she said no, so i offered to pay again, she said no her parents would be home soon and give her money. We finally went out, I paid even though she wanted to. Not a good experience.

If she wants you to pay all the time that is bad. If she won't let you pay at all than that's a sign she isn't interested as well. Then again high school girls are stupid maybe she really has no money, but it's more likeley she has no interest. Depending on how close you are with this girl I would tell her you will spot her to get her to come. Just don't ever expect to get your money back. If she comes back to give you the money that is good, but don't take it.
 
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you can pay for her being a gentleman DJ, or you can pay for her while being an AFC, big difference.
There are no rules, only guidelines.
 
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Originally posted by oranges
I invite a chick out she ses she cant go because she has no $ , if i offer to pay am i being AFC?

bearing in mind its only $10
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Offer to pay. If she says no she is not intrested...

Say something like "I tell you what. Come out and i will treat you this time."

Just make sure its this time or you go AFC.
 
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