"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
No money
- Thread starter oranges
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Alfie Crew
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Sure, you can treat her, but as soon as you begin looking for approval by paying for her, you've entered AFC territory.
Alfie Crew
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
PeterNorthisawesome
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If she wants you to pay all the time that is bad. If she won't let you pay at all than that's a sign she isn't interested as well. Then again high school girls are stupid maybe she really has no money, but it's more likeley she has no interest. Depending on how close you are with this girl I would tell her you will spot her to get her to come. Just don't ever expect to get your money back. If she comes back to give you the money that is good, but don't take it.
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
Offer to pay. If she says no she is not intrested...Originally posted by oranges
I invite a chick out she ses she cant go because she has no $ , if i offer to pay am i being AFC?
bearing in mind its only $10
Say something like "I tell you what. Come out and i will treat you this time."
Just make sure its this time or you go AFC.