No matter the girl, amount of sex always goes down

[user252009]

I've realised that no matter the girl I'm dating, once the relationship becomes serious, my attraction to her goes down and the amount of sex just dwindles a lot. The girl I've been with for 6 months now, in the first month or so was pretty intense, but since then, just downhill. She's a 6 I'd say, so not super up there, and doesn't really have much interests so...We'll see how it continues to go (if).

Does it also happen to you guys?

 

[Barrister]

I've realised that no matter the girl I'm dating, once the relationship becomes serious, my attraction to her goes down and the amount of sex just dwindles a lot. The girl I've been with for 6 months now, in the first month or so was pretty intense, but since then, just downhill. She's a 6 I'd say, so not super up there, and doesn't really have much interests so...We'll see how it continues to go (if).

Does it also happen to you guys?

Yes - it’s inevitable. Last ltr I was in lasted 2.5 years. First 7-8 months were great sexually. First 2-3 months were crazy good sex 4-5 times per week. Probably best I’ve ever had in a consistent basis with anyone. She was super engaged and would initiate.

At about 10 month mark that changed and suddenly I was the only one really initiating outside of the occasional here or there. Also, the act itself wasn’t nearly as enjoyable as most of the time I was suddenly doing +90% of the work when we had it. At the end of the relationship was lucky to have sex twice a week but more often than not it was like once.

 

[SirBigBell]

If you eat a Big Mac everyday for 2 months straight, sooner or later the very sight of those seeds on top of the bun will knock you sick.
Variety is the spice of life. Even in a LTR, have a sidepiece to cleanse your palette every now and again

 

[TheProspect]

Does it also happen to you guys?

It happens to everyone.

The initial lust & excitement of a new conquest is fleeting, as is the honeymoon phase in a new relationship.

The novelty of a new partner wears off eventually.

Also, many people settle into an LTR while in this high, and this causes them to ignore or miss many red flags & areas of incompatibility.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Ration yourself gentlemen. Get back to taking this girl out on dates. Try some romance.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

The plates spin themselves, you do not spin them.