"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ok, day 3 for me.

Been at work most of the day, done lots of pushups and meditation, breathing exercises etc.

I'm too tired to bother wanking tonight, which is great news for my mission.

I'm off to watch the game.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I've completed day 3 as well. Wasn't as difficult as day 2 strangely. Didn't wake up with a huge boner this time, but still have been lacking sleep. Not sure if this is related to not jerking off or not!
 

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Day 3 for me too.

Did boxing training this morning.

I don't have desire for porn tonight.

Bring on day 4/42.
 

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Roll on day 4/42.

Got out of bed late today, must have overtrained, body feels drained.

Which is good in a way, since masturbation is out of the question.

I think it will be easy until Saturday, then when I am in the house alone I may give in to temptation...

Any suggestions to get past this...?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm on day four, but tomorrow night I have a date. Not sure if I should burp the worm beforehand, as I'm worried about having a hard on the whole time or blowing my load too early if things end up going well...
 

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day 5

had a nice dream last night, but i didn't bust a nut, so i guess i'm still in.

today is gona be hard. (no phun intended)
 

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I really need to do this and actually stick with it...I always lose it.
 

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i'm about to loose it... i'm at work and i'm sooo tempted to do it when i get home.....rrrrrrrrrr pissing me off.
 

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Day 5/42, feeling strong.

Was offered a lay for tonight but turned it down since I have to be up for training tomorrow morning.

May go for it next week though.

It's Saturday afternoon when I'm on my own, that the urge hits me.

I'm going to accept this challenge from my inner drive and say no.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I blew it. After 5 days I'm back to day 1. I don't know if it's just me but I've been feeling tense lately, can't relax as easily and this has disrupted my sleep! I got sick of being tired all the time and milked the one eyed snake this morning so I could get back to sleep.

Now I have to start all over again. :(
 
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You know by doing this your increasing the chance for impotence, cancer and PE right? your penis is suppose to have regular blood flow through the veins so it's natural and encouraged to masterbate. You'll notice after about 2 weeks that your boner is getting weaker because YOUR PC MUSCLE which controls the amount of blood that flows into the veins is getting weaker. I suggest doing something more productive like GIVING UP SUGAR from your diet or maybe starting an another hobby than stop masterbating seriously it doesn't benefit you at all. But that's just my 2 cents so go ahead it's your choice.
 

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!WRONG!

You get erections during the night that more than suffice for blood flow, and at other times.

To work the pc muscles just stop and start your urine flow 10-20 times per visit.

This is just excuse rationalisation.

I quit for 4.5 weeks and then went back and nothing had changed.

If you are going to post 'advice' like this then make sure its medically verified and site your references.

Otherwise, why waste my time? With words of discouragement...

Why would you do that?

All you guys who are giving up after 5 days, are showing major signs of weakness and lack of self control and discipline.
 

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Day 7/42.

It's getting tough but I think I'm going to make it through to tomorrow.

One day at a time...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How old are you guys? I'm 25 now and the urge is no where near as strong as it was when I was younger.
 

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Day 16/42.

Going strong, hell yah, fell like a MAN!
I think I'm gonna hit a tyre with a sledgehammer for an hour.
 
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