DonJuanMonk
Master Don Juan
Shut up Catholic dog.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
strams4ever
Don Juan
I'm in...
Such projects have been attempted and discussed to death in the past; the bottom line is, unless you get your balls removed, your body will need to evacuate some semen and it will find a way to do so.
Trying to stop completely will eventually fail; however, reducing the frequency can work and is still actually healthy.
-Bill
Trying to stop completely will eventually fail; however, reducing the frequency can work and is still actually healthy.
-Bill
steroidsrule
Don Juan
ive been on steroids before... when you have that outside test flowing into your body you are a friggin sex machine.... count me in... 6 months baby... you best be right about that doubling testosterone thing
JaguarMike
Don Juan
oh man... 6 months... I find three days a little hard. LOL. How exactly do you not do this? Seriously, I mean not wanking makes me a ravenous beast that is pure aggression and I might go over the edge and turn into tyler from fight club if I don't vent once in a while. yikes...
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Egoist
Master Don Juan
but you can still sleep with chicks, right??
shouldnt be too bad... maybe ill try it..
although ill be more inclined to call my annoying FBs..
shouldnt be too bad... maybe ill try it..
although ill be more inclined to call my annoying FBs..
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
This thread should be moved to anything else...
..... guys making a pack to go cold turkey on their shalong..
Its soo pathetic...
..... guys making a pack to go cold turkey on their shalong..
Its soo pathetic...
The Bad Ass Canadian
Master Don Juan
What's with all the new posters with 1-100 posts and names with no capital letters? lol
It's kinda funny seeing all the newbies jump right on this. haha
Anyways, I'm doing this for the sole purpose of breaking out of a destructive cycle/habit. I will stop and that's that. Not that it has become a real problem, but I want to be in total control and I've decided that masterbation is nothing more then a crutch and a routine... It has started to make me passive and that's NOT who I want to be.
It's kinda funny seeing all the newbies jump right on this. haha
Anyways, I'm doing this for the sole purpose of breaking out of a destructive cycle/habit. I will stop and that's that. Not that it has become a real problem, but I want to be in total control and I've decided that masterbation is nothing more then a crutch and a routine... It has started to make me passive and that's NOT who I want to be.
soontobesuave
Don Juan
do wet dream ejaculations half your testosterone levels though?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
dyce
Don Juan
all these people that are like "i can't last 3 days" or whatever, you'll find that the first few days are actually the hardest, but once you get your mind off sex, you'll find you never really think about it
it's only hard when you think about it or watch porn or get aroused. **** is easy after a while though
and take it one day at a time. if i said "i'm not gonna jack off for 6 months" it'll seem impossible but if i wake up everyday and say "i'm not gonna jack off for the rest of this day" it seems very possible
it's only hard when you think about it or watch porn or get aroused. **** is easy after a while though
and take it one day at a time. if i said "i'm not gonna jack off for 6 months" it'll seem impossible but if i wake up everyday and say "i'm not gonna jack off for the rest of this day" it seems very possible
Sophomakhos
Don Juan
Might as well give it a shot, I suppose. If nothing else, self-discipline and a degree of abstinence is good for strengthening the mind and character, and is especially useful when dealing with women.
hey my man... I think that you are being to tuff on yourself. How about only masturbating once every 2 weeks. I think that is more like it. You are still sacraficing but you are not going beyond the impossible ranges. 6 months is a little too extreme buddy. Just a thought.
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i remember back in highschool, i did it every day for almost a year straight. i cut back to twice a week now.
i'm in....
Also. if you get a calendar and mark down each day you don't do it, WHEN YOU GET THE URGE, JUST LOOK AT THE CALENDAR AND SEE HAW MUCH YOU ACOMPLISHED. it will give you insperation to keep going.
six months may be a little unrealistic. I've heard of a guy who didn't do it for 6 months (religius reasons), He was having an orgasam just looking at the woman....
i'm in....
Also. if you get a calendar and mark down each day you don't do it, WHEN YOU GET THE URGE, JUST LOOK AT THE CALENDAR AND SEE HAW MUCH YOU ACOMPLISHED. it will give you insperation to keep going.
six months may be a little unrealistic. I've heard of a guy who didn't do it for 6 months (religius reasons), He was having an orgasam just looking at the woman....
lets_do_this
Don Juan
Count me in!
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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