DonJuanMonk
Master Don Juan
Shut up Catholic dog.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
strams4ever
Don Juan
I'm in...
Such projects have been attempted and discussed to death in the past; the bottom line is, unless you get your balls removed, your body will need to evacuate some semen and it will find a way to do so.
Trying to stop completely will eventually fail; however, reducing the frequency can work and is still actually healthy.
-Bill
Trying to stop completely will eventually fail; however, reducing the frequency can work and is still actually healthy.
-Bill
steroidsrule
Don Juan
ive been on steroids before... when you have that outside test flowing into your body you are a friggin sex machine.... count me in... 6 months baby... you best be right about that doubling testosterone thing
JaguarMike
Don Juan
oh man... 6 months... I find three days a little hard. LOL. How exactly do you not do this? Seriously, I mean not wanking makes me a ravenous beast that is pure aggression and I might go over the edge and turn into tyler from fight club if I don't vent once in a while. yikes...
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Egoist
Master Don Juan
but you can still sleep with chicks, right??
shouldnt be too bad... maybe ill try it..
although ill be more inclined to call my annoying FBs..
shouldnt be too bad... maybe ill try it..
although ill be more inclined to call my annoying FBs..
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
This thread should be moved to anything else...
..... guys making a pack to go cold turkey on their shalong..
Its soo pathetic...
..... guys making a pack to go cold turkey on their shalong..
Its soo pathetic...
The Bad Ass Canadian
Master Don Juan
What's with all the new posters with 1-100 posts and names with no capital letters? lol
It's kinda funny seeing all the newbies jump right on this. haha
Anyways, I'm doing this for the sole purpose of breaking out of a destructive cycle/habit. I will stop and that's that. Not that it has become a real problem, but I want to be in total control and I've decided that masterbation is nothing more then a crutch and a routine... It has started to make me passive and that's NOT who I want to be.
It's kinda funny seeing all the newbies jump right on this. haha
Anyways, I'm doing this for the sole purpose of breaking out of a destructive cycle/habit. I will stop and that's that. Not that it has become a real problem, but I want to be in total control and I've decided that masterbation is nothing more then a crutch and a routine... It has started to make me passive and that's NOT who I want to be.
soontobesuave
Don Juan
do wet dream ejaculations half your testosterone levels though?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
dyce
Don Juan
all these people that are like "i can't last 3 days" or whatever, you'll find that the first few days are actually the hardest, but once you get your mind off sex, you'll find you never really think about it
it's only hard when you think about it or watch porn or get aroused. **** is easy after a while though
and take it one day at a time. if i said "i'm not gonna jack off for 6 months" it'll seem impossible but if i wake up everyday and say "i'm not gonna jack off for the rest of this day" it seems very possible
it's only hard when you think about it or watch porn or get aroused. **** is easy after a while though
and take it one day at a time. if i said "i'm not gonna jack off for 6 months" it'll seem impossible but if i wake up everyday and say "i'm not gonna jack off for the rest of this day" it seems very possible
Sophomakhos
Don Juan
Might as well give it a shot, I suppose. If nothing else, self-discipline and a degree of abstinence is good for strengthening the mind and character, and is especially useful when dealing with women.
hey my man... I think that you are being to tuff on yourself. How about only masturbating once every 2 weeks. I think that is more like it. You are still sacraficing but you are not going beyond the impossible ranges. 6 months is a little too extreme buddy. Just a thought.
Rec_rejection_phobic
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i remember back in highschool, i did it every day for almost a year straight. i cut back to twice a week now.
i'm in....
Also. if you get a calendar and mark down each day you don't do it, WHEN YOU GET THE URGE, JUST LOOK AT THE CALENDAR AND SEE HAW MUCH YOU ACOMPLISHED. it will give you insperation to keep going.
six months may be a little unrealistic. I've heard of a guy who didn't do it for 6 months (religius reasons), He was having an orgasam just looking at the woman....
i'm in....
Also. if you get a calendar and mark down each day you don't do it, WHEN YOU GET THE URGE, JUST LOOK AT THE CALENDAR AND SEE HAW MUCH YOU ACOMPLISHED. it will give you insperation to keep going.
six months may be a little unrealistic. I've heard of a guy who didn't do it for 6 months (religius reasons), He was having an orgasam just looking at the woman....
lets_do_this
Don Juan
Count me in!
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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