MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
COUNT ME OUT!!!!
this is just desperation begetting more desperation..
this is just desperation begetting more desperation..
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
No Masturbation for 6 months! Join in!
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
VSIDEBOY
Don Juan
Nah, I don't think so.
You guys will be beating people up and having super road rage with all that built up testosterone!!!
I've had $ex at least 3 times a day for 3 weeks solid and not once did I have to miss a meal or a party!?!?!?
Let us know how it goes for ya though. I doubt many will manage the full time though. And I think that there should be no touching of p**** other than to pee. This playing and not finishing should be banned too!!
You guys will be beating people up and having super road rage with all that built up testosterone!!!
I've had $ex at least 3 times a day for 3 weeks solid and not once did I have to miss a meal or a party!?!?!?
Let us know how it goes for ya though. I doubt many will manage the full time though. And I think that there should be no touching of p**** other than to pee. This playing and not finishing should be banned too!!
mroriginal
Banned
Heres the list so far..............
SamePendo
nw1512
Phantasmal
C00L
Kerensky
Boner da Stoner
mroriginal
brosnake
monroe
strams4ever
steroidsrule
handle
Egoist
Aquatico
drdrew
tyte3
The Bad Ass Canadian
arlanda
Sophomakhos
Rec_rejection_phobic
lets_do_this
g g g unit
On_the_Top
Bourne
Ill be starting on dec, 1, 2005
Ill finish on may, 30, 2006
SamePendo
nw1512
Phantasmal
C00L
Kerensky
Boner da Stoner
mroriginal
brosnake
monroe
strams4ever
steroidsrule
handle
Egoist
Aquatico
drdrew
tyte3
The Bad Ass Canadian
arlanda
Sophomakhos
Rec_rejection_phobic
lets_do_this
g g g unit
On_the_Top
Bourne
Ill be starting on dec, 1, 2005
Ill finish on may, 30, 2006
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The Bad Ass Canadian
Master Don Juan
I really think that the effects of alot of masterbating comes over the longterm.
If I jacked it an average of once a day for the past 12 yrs...... Not that I have, but you get the idea. ... That CAN'T be good.
I'm gonna go as long as I can without it and use the energy to be productive in other areas..
If I jacked it an average of once a day for the past 12 yrs...... Not that I have, but you get the idea. ... That CAN'T be good.
I'm gonna go as long as I can without it and use the energy to be productive in other areas..
Lost In Translation
Master Don Juan
http://www.askmen.com/love/love_tip_60/92_love_tip.html
"your testosterone levels are lower so you're more serene and not very inclined to approach women" - from article
testosterone is very important
it is what keeps you healthy
it also increases strength and power
it takes 7 days for your testosterone to reach it's normal level after you masturbate
the level of testosterone in your body after the 7 days is DOUBLE what is was after you masturbated
the chemical difference in your body is huge
it affects everything including your brain
Lost In Translation
**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
"your testosterone levels are lower so you're more serene and not very inclined to approach women" - from article
testosterone is very important
it is what keeps you healthy
it also increases strength and power
it takes 7 days for your testosterone to reach it's normal level after you masturbate
the level of testosterone in your body after the 7 days is DOUBLE what is was after you masturbated
the chemical difference in your body is huge
it affects everything including your brain
Lost In Translation
**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
seriously though why not quit all together?
It's like a smoker saying.
"I'm gonna give up smoking for 2 months" and going back.
If he can do it that long. Why not just quit? It's not gonna be harder after 6 months than it was b4.
It's like a smoker saying.
"I'm gonna give up smoking for 2 months" and going back.
If he can do it that long. Why not just quit? It's not gonna be harder after 6 months than it was b4.
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
It doubles?!! Wow, I really didn't know that....Originally posted by Lost In Translation
http://www.askmen.com/love/love_tip_60/92_love_tip.html
"your testosterone levels are lower so you're more serene and not very inclined to approach women" - from article
testosterone is very important
it is what keeps you healthy
it also increases strength and power
it takes 7 days for your testosterone to reach it's normal level after you masturbate
the level of testosterone in your body after the 7 days is DOUBLE what is was after you masturbated
the chemical difference in your body is huge
it affects everything including your brain
Lost In Translation
**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
Phantasmal
Senior Don Juan
About the whole double testosterone thing, I'm not saying that claim is wrong but can we see proof of that? I've never heard of that before.
Lost In Translation
Master Don Juan
http://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/south99.htm
i saw it elsewhere but here it says the same thing
Chinese researchers conducted a study in 2003, and enlisted twenty-eight male volunteers to abstain from ejaculation for a period of one week. The participants were tested daily for deviations on serum testosterone levels. The Chinese study was the first to measure the influence of ejaculation frequency on serum testosterone levels, and the results are provocative.
Researchers found that abstaining from ejaculation for six days had no impact on serum testosterone levels. On the seventh day, serum testosterone levels peaked to 145.7% of baseline, and then declined rapidly on the eighth day.7,8
Researchers believe testosterone declined on day eight from the negative feedback suppression of Leutinizing hormone secretion. Leutinizing hormone is essential for testosterone production, and LH determines free testosterone levels. Suppression of LH would decrease serum testosterone levels, returning them to baseline. The study determined that the frequency of sexual activity and ejaculation impacted testosterone levels.
FOR YOU TO RESEARCH :
Jiang M. Periodic changes in serum testosterone levels after ejaculation in men. Sheng Li Xue Bao 2002 Dec 25;54(6):535-8
Jiang M, Xin J, Zou Q, Shen JW. A research on the relationship between ejaculation and serum testosterone level in men. J Zhejiang Univ Sci. 2003 Mar-Apr;4(2):236-40.
Lost In Translation
**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
i saw it elsewhere but here it says the same thing
Chinese researchers conducted a study in 2003, and enlisted twenty-eight male volunteers to abstain from ejaculation for a period of one week. The participants were tested daily for deviations on serum testosterone levels. The Chinese study was the first to measure the influence of ejaculation frequency on serum testosterone levels, and the results are provocative.
Researchers found that abstaining from ejaculation for six days had no impact on serum testosterone levels. On the seventh day, serum testosterone levels peaked to 145.7% of baseline, and then declined rapidly on the eighth day.7,8
Researchers believe testosterone declined on day eight from the negative feedback suppression of Leutinizing hormone secretion. Leutinizing hormone is essential for testosterone production, and LH determines free testosterone levels. Suppression of LH would decrease serum testosterone levels, returning them to baseline. The study determined that the frequency of sexual activity and ejaculation impacted testosterone levels.
FOR YOU TO RESEARCH :
Jiang M. Periodic changes in serum testosterone levels after ejaculation in men. Sheng Li Xue Bao 2002 Dec 25;54(6):535-8
Jiang M, Xin J, Zou Q, Shen JW. A research on the relationship between ejaculation and serum testosterone level in men. J Zhejiang Univ Sci. 2003 Mar-Apr;4(2):236-40.
Lost In Translation
**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Well if someone is really skipping social events just to wank off...well maybe this aint such a bad idea for them!...
I seem to recall a sienfield episode about something like this....didnt work out to well for them
I do believe i'll keep myself out of this though, last time I tried to walk away from anything like this I was in university...ended up with a emotionally vulnerable mother(rated maybe a 4) of a 2yo from one of my classes and ended up dealing with the consequences for a few months...
Hamno
I seem to recall a sienfield episode about something like this....didnt work out to well for them
I do believe i'll keep myself out of this though, last time I tried to walk away from anything like this I was in university...ended up with a emotionally vulnerable mother(rated maybe a 4) of a 2yo from one of my classes and ended up dealing with the consequences for a few months...
Hamno
Lost In Translation
Master Don Juan
http://www.zju.edu.cn/jzus/2003/0302/030219.htm
A research on the relationship between ejaculation and serum testosterone level in men
JIANG Ming(½¯Ãù)(Department of Life Science, Hangzhou Normal College, Hangzhou 310020, China)
JIANG Xin(½¯ÐÂ)(Department of Chemical Engineering, Zhejiang University, Hangzhou 310027, China)
ZOU Qiang(×ÞÇ¿)(Department of Urology, Provincial People's Hospital of Zhejiang,Hangzhou, 310021 China)
SHEN Jin-wen(Éò½øÎÈ)(Zhejiang Tranditint Medicine College, Hangzhou 310053, China)
Abstract:The purpose of this study is to gain understanding of the relationship between ejaculation and serum testosterone level in men. The serum testosterone concentrations of 28 volunteers were investigated daily during abstinence periods after ejaculation for two phases. The authors found that the fluctuations of testosterone levels from the 2nd to 5th day of abstinence were minimal. On the 7th day of abstinence, however, a clear peak of serum testosterone appeared, reaching 145.7% of the baseline (P<0.01). No regular fluctuation was observed following continuous abstinence after the peak. Ejaculation is the precondition and beginning of the special periodic serum testosterone level variations, which would not occur without ejaculation. The results showed that ejaculation-caused variations were characterized by a peak on the 7th day of abstinence; and that the effective time of an ejaculation is 7 days minimum. These data are the first to document the phenomenon of the periodic change in serum testosterone level; the correlation between ejaculation and periodic change in the serum testosterone level, and the pattern and characteristics of the periodic change.
Keywords:Ejaculation, Periodic change, Testosterone
CLC Number:R339 Document ID:A
Author Resume:JIANG Ming(½¯Ãù),E-mail: [email protected]
References:
[1]Blackwell, J. M. and Zaneveld, L. J., 1992. Effect of abstinence on sperm acrosin, hypoosmotic swelling, and other semen variables. Fertil Steril, 58(4): 798-802.
[2]Catt, K.J., Harwood, J. P., Clayton, R. N., Davies, T.F., Chan, V., Katikineni, M., Nozu, K. and Dufou, M.L., 1980. Regulation of peptide hormone receptors and gonadal teroidogenesis. Recent Prog. Horm. Res., 36: 557-622.
[3]Faiman, C. and Winter, J. S. D., 1971. Diurnal cycles in plasma FSH, testosterone and cortisol in men. J. Clin. Endocrinol. Metab., 33:186-192.
[4]Finkelstein, J. S., Whitcomb, R.W., O'Dea, L. S. L, Longcope, C.D., Schoenfeld, D.A. and Crowley, J.R., 1991. Sex steroid control of gonadotropin secretion in the human male. I. Effects of testosterone administration in normal and gonadotropin-releasing hormone-deficient men. J. Clin.. Endocrinol. Metab., 73: 609-620.
[5]Heuche, V., Schwartz, D. and Price, W., 1981. Within-subject variability and the importance of abstinence period for sperm count, semen volume and pre-freeze and post-thaw motility. Andrologia, 13(5): 479-485.
[6]Jian, G. S., Wu, Y. J., Zhang, J. X., Ma, Q.L., Yang, L.F. and He, X. B., 1995. Measurements of external genitalia and serum androgenic hormones before and after sexual motivation in young men. CN J. Andrology, 91: 28-30(in Chinese with English abstract).
[7]Jiang, M., 1999. Physiological significations of seven days for men. Journal of Hangzhou Educational Institute, 6: 69-71(in Chinese).
[8]Keenan, D.M. and Veldhuis, J.D., 1998. A biomathematical model of time-delayed feedback in the human male hypothalamic-pituitary-Leydig cell axis. Am. J. Physiol. Endocrinol Metab., 275, 1: 157-176.
[9]Le, L. D., Colleu, D., Boujard, D. Le, C.A., Lescoat, D. and Segalen, J., 1986. Effect of duration of abstinence on maturity of human spermatozoa nucleus. Arch. Androl., 17(1):35-38.
[10]Magnus, O., Tollefsrud, A. and Abyholm, T., 1991. Effects of varying the abstinence period in the same individuals on sperm quality. Arch. Androl., 26(3):199-203.
[11]Marshall, G.R., Wickings, E.J. and Ludecke, D. K., 1983. Stimulation of spermatogenesis in stalk-sectioned rhesus monkeys by testosterone alone. J. Clin. Endocrinol. Metab., 57: 152-159.
[12]Meriggiola, M. C., Noonan, E. A., Paulsen, C. A. and Bremner, W.J., 1996. Annual patterns of luteinizing hormone, follicle stimulating hormone, testosterone and inhibin in normal men. Hum. Reprod., 11: 248-252.
[13]Pellestor, F., Girardet, A. and Andreo, B., 1994. Effect of long abstinence periods on human sperm quality. Int J. Fertil Menopausal Stud., 39(5):278-282.
[14]Pierroz, D.D., Aebi, A.C., Huhtaniemi, I.T. and Aubert, M.L., 1999. Many LH peaks are needed to physiologically stimulate testosterone secretion: modulation by fasting and NPY. Am. J. Physiol. Endocrinol. Metab., 4: 603-610.
[15]Sauer, M. V., Zeffer, K. B., Buster, J. E., 1988. Effect of abstinence on sperm motility in normal men. Am. J. Obstet. Gynecol., 158(1):604-607.
[16]Schwartz, D., Laplanche, A., Jouannet, P. and David, G., 1979. Within-subject variability of human semen in regard to sperm count, volume, total number of spermatozoa and length of abstinence. J. Reprod. Fertil, 57(2):391-395.
[17]Sharpe, 1994. Regulation of Spermatogenesis. In: R. M. Knobil, E., Neill, J. D. Ed., The Physiology of Reproduction (2nd edn). Raven Press, New York, p. 1363-1434.
[18]Spira, A. and Ducot, B., 1985. Physiologic changes in semen examination. Ann Biol Clin (Paris), 43(1):55-61.
[19]Steinberger, E., Root, A. and Ficher, M., 1973. The role of androgens in the initiation of spermatogenesis in man. J. Clin. Endocrinol. Metab., 37: 746-751.
[20]Weinbauer, G. F., Gockeler, E. and Nieschlag, E., 1988. Testosterone prevents complete suppression of spermatogenesis in the gonadotropin-releasing hormone antagonist-treated nonhuman primate (Macaca fascicularis). J. Clin. Endocrinol. Metab., 67: 284-290.
[21]Winters, S. J., 1991. Diurnal rhythm of testosterone and luteinizing hormone in hypogonadal men.J. Androl., 12:185-190.
[22]World Health Organization, 1992. WHO Laboratory Manual for the Examination of Human Semen and Sperm-Cervical Mucus Interaction (Third Edition).
[23]Xie, W. Y., Wang, Y. F. and Jiang, Y., 1991. Andrology. Shanghai Science & Technology Press, Shanghai, China, p. 210-212(in Chinese).
Manuscript Received:2002 Feb. 28
Manuscript Revised:2002 July 28
Published:2003 March 1
A research on the relationship between ejaculation and serum testosterone level in men
JIANG Ming(½¯Ãù)(Department of Life Science, Hangzhou Normal College, Hangzhou 310020, China)
JIANG Xin(½¯ÐÂ)(Department of Chemical Engineering, Zhejiang University, Hangzhou 310027, China)
ZOU Qiang(×ÞÇ¿)(Department of Urology, Provincial People's Hospital of Zhejiang,Hangzhou, 310021 China)
SHEN Jin-wen(Éò½øÎÈ)(Zhejiang Tranditint Medicine College, Hangzhou 310053, China)
Abstract:The purpose of this study is to gain understanding of the relationship between ejaculation and serum testosterone level in men. The serum testosterone concentrations of 28 volunteers were investigated daily during abstinence periods after ejaculation for two phases. The authors found that the fluctuations of testosterone levels from the 2nd to 5th day of abstinence were minimal. On the 7th day of abstinence, however, a clear peak of serum testosterone appeared, reaching 145.7% of the baseline (P<0.01). No regular fluctuation was observed following continuous abstinence after the peak. Ejaculation is the precondition and beginning of the special periodic serum testosterone level variations, which would not occur without ejaculation. The results showed that ejaculation-caused variations were characterized by a peak on the 7th day of abstinence; and that the effective time of an ejaculation is 7 days minimum. These data are the first to document the phenomenon of the periodic change in serum testosterone level; the correlation between ejaculation and periodic change in the serum testosterone level, and the pattern and characteristics of the periodic change.
Keywords:Ejaculation, Periodic change, Testosterone
CLC Number:R339 Document ID:A
Author Resume:JIANG Ming(½¯Ãù),E-mail: [email protected]
References:
[1]Blackwell, J. M. and Zaneveld, L. J., 1992. Effect of abstinence on sperm acrosin, hypoosmotic swelling, and other semen variables. Fertil Steril, 58(4): 798-802.
[2]Catt, K.J., Harwood, J. P., Clayton, R. N., Davies, T.F., Chan, V., Katikineni, M., Nozu, K. and Dufou, M.L., 1980. Regulation of peptide hormone receptors and gonadal teroidogenesis. Recent Prog. Horm. Res., 36: 557-622.
[3]Faiman, C. and Winter, J. S. D., 1971. Diurnal cycles in plasma FSH, testosterone and cortisol in men. J. Clin. Endocrinol. Metab., 33:186-192.
[4]Finkelstein, J. S., Whitcomb, R.W., O'Dea, L. S. L, Longcope, C.D., Schoenfeld, D.A. and Crowley, J.R., 1991. Sex steroid control of gonadotropin secretion in the human male. I. Effects of testosterone administration in normal and gonadotropin-releasing hormone-deficient men. J. Clin.. Endocrinol. Metab., 73: 609-620.
[5]Heuche, V., Schwartz, D. and Price, W., 1981. Within-subject variability and the importance of abstinence period for sperm count, semen volume and pre-freeze and post-thaw motility. Andrologia, 13(5): 479-485.
[6]Jian, G. S., Wu, Y. J., Zhang, J. X., Ma, Q.L., Yang, L.F. and He, X. B., 1995. Measurements of external genitalia and serum androgenic hormones before and after sexual motivation in young men. CN J. Andrology, 91: 28-30(in Chinese with English abstract).
[7]Jiang, M., 1999. Physiological significations of seven days for men. Journal of Hangzhou Educational Institute, 6: 69-71(in Chinese).
[8]Keenan, D.M. and Veldhuis, J.D., 1998. A biomathematical model of time-delayed feedback in the human male hypothalamic-pituitary-Leydig cell axis. Am. J. Physiol. Endocrinol Metab., 275, 1: 157-176.
[9]Le, L. D., Colleu, D., Boujard, D. Le, C.A., Lescoat, D. and Segalen, J., 1986. Effect of duration of abstinence on maturity of human spermatozoa nucleus. Arch. Androl., 17(1):35-38.
[10]Magnus, O., Tollefsrud, A. and Abyholm, T., 1991. Effects of varying the abstinence period in the same individuals on sperm quality. Arch. Androl., 26(3):199-203.
[11]Marshall, G.R., Wickings, E.J. and Ludecke, D. K., 1983. Stimulation of spermatogenesis in stalk-sectioned rhesus monkeys by testosterone alone. J. Clin. Endocrinol. Metab., 57: 152-159.
[12]Meriggiola, M. C., Noonan, E. A., Paulsen, C. A. and Bremner, W.J., 1996. Annual patterns of luteinizing hormone, follicle stimulating hormone, testosterone and inhibin in normal men. Hum. Reprod., 11: 248-252.
[13]Pellestor, F., Girardet, A. and Andreo, B., 1994. Effect of long abstinence periods on human sperm quality. Int J. Fertil Menopausal Stud., 39(5):278-282.
[14]Pierroz, D.D., Aebi, A.C., Huhtaniemi, I.T. and Aubert, M.L., 1999. Many LH peaks are needed to physiologically stimulate testosterone secretion: modulation by fasting and NPY. Am. J. Physiol. Endocrinol. Metab., 4: 603-610.
[15]Sauer, M. V., Zeffer, K. B., Buster, J. E., 1988. Effect of abstinence on sperm motility in normal men. Am. J. Obstet. Gynecol., 158(1):604-607.
[16]Schwartz, D., Laplanche, A., Jouannet, P. and David, G., 1979. Within-subject variability of human semen in regard to sperm count, volume, total number of spermatozoa and length of abstinence. J. Reprod. Fertil, 57(2):391-395.
[17]Sharpe, 1994. Regulation of Spermatogenesis. In: R. M. Knobil, E., Neill, J. D. Ed., The Physiology of Reproduction (2nd edn). Raven Press, New York, p. 1363-1434.
[18]Spira, A. and Ducot, B., 1985. Physiologic changes in semen examination. Ann Biol Clin (Paris), 43(1):55-61.
[19]Steinberger, E., Root, A. and Ficher, M., 1973. The role of androgens in the initiation of spermatogenesis in man. J. Clin. Endocrinol. Metab., 37: 746-751.
[20]Weinbauer, G. F., Gockeler, E. and Nieschlag, E., 1988. Testosterone prevents complete suppression of spermatogenesis in the gonadotropin-releasing hormone antagonist-treated nonhuman primate (Macaca fascicularis). J. Clin. Endocrinol. Metab., 67: 284-290.
[21]Winters, S. J., 1991. Diurnal rhythm of testosterone and luteinizing hormone in hypogonadal men.J. Androl., 12:185-190.
[22]World Health Organization, 1992. WHO Laboratory Manual for the Examination of Human Semen and Sperm-Cervical Mucus Interaction (Third Edition).
[23]Xie, W. Y., Wang, Y. F. and Jiang, Y., 1991. Andrology. Shanghai Science & Technology Press, Shanghai, China, p. 210-212(in Chinese).
Manuscript Received:2002 Feb. 28
Manuscript Revised:2002 July 28
Published:2003 March 1
mroriginal
Banned
I'm already ahead of you by 4 months! 6 months at this point is easy!! This is the longest I have gone without "losing my load"!
Things I've noticed:
1). When I see a hot woman my body radiates a heat.
2). Sometimes my thinking is manic, but after a little physical exertion I find that my will is solid and focused.
3). I have gone for days at a time without thinking about sex b/c I have kept myself busy with so many other things.
4). I have had more "heroic" thoughts and my ideas have become more grandiose.
5). I still feel extreme sexual urges, but my improved performance in other areas of my life makes ejaculation look like a waste!
6). Mental alertness, surfacing issues such as anger, etc.(which I am able to "work through" in exertion of all of my activities...)
7). Happiness. I can have some sort of satisfaction knowing that I'm making progress in self-control
8)Confidence. I know that most men walk around in depleted, spent states. I can be around hot women and know that I'm holding something of value!
9). I know for a fact, that when I find a woman to "unleash" on, she is going to be in for the ride of her life!(If I'm with a woman who I don't think is too attractive, I do NOT ejaculate)
These are just my experiences. My friends think I'm crazy. Oh well! Do what you gotta do.....
Things I've noticed:
1). When I see a hot woman my body radiates a heat.
2). Sometimes my thinking is manic, but after a little physical exertion I find that my will is solid and focused.
3). I have gone for days at a time without thinking about sex b/c I have kept myself busy with so many other things.
4). I have had more "heroic" thoughts and my ideas have become more grandiose.
5). I still feel extreme sexual urges, but my improved performance in other areas of my life makes ejaculation look like a waste!
6). Mental alertness, surfacing issues such as anger, etc.(which I am able to "work through" in exertion of all of my activities...)
7). Happiness. I can have some sort of satisfaction knowing that I'm making progress in self-control
8)Confidence. I know that most men walk around in depleted, spent states. I can be around hot women and know that I'm holding something of value!
9). I know for a fact, that when I find a woman to "unleash" on, she is going to be in for the ride of her life!(If I'm with a woman who I don't think is too attractive, I do NOT ejaculate)
These are just my experiences. My friends think I'm crazy. Oh well! Do what you gotta do.....
Monroe
Don Juan
I'm in...beginning tomorrow.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
6 months?!?! Are you guys out of your mind?
If you all can do it then I gotta tip my hat to you. The longest I have gone without jerking it has been a week. Heck, there are many days in which I do it multiple times a day. I just cant imagine myself going for six months without relieving oneself.
On the other hand, I will admit that masturbating too much has interfered with my life, at least on an indirect level. I notice that after I do the deed I become more relaxed but I also become more lazy and far less motivated. Thats one reason I never jerk off if I am planning on going out to socialize, because if I do, then I lose my desire to socialize or if I do go out I am a lot more passive. Therefore, I am willing to give this experiment a go, but only for 3-4 weeks tops, and even then it will be a struggle for me. Of course I will have to forego porn and most sites on the internet that I visit. Heck I may have to forget TV and internet altogether, especially during the first week and a half (this might actually be a good thing). I will be starting on Dec 1 as well
On a side note, it might be an idea if you all were to keep a post going detailing your progress.
If you all can do it then I gotta tip my hat to you. The longest I have gone without jerking it has been a week. Heck, there are many days in which I do it multiple times a day. I just cant imagine myself going for six months without relieving oneself.
On the other hand, I will admit that masturbating too much has interfered with my life, at least on an indirect level. I notice that after I do the deed I become more relaxed but I also become more lazy and far less motivated. Thats one reason I never jerk off if I am planning on going out to socialize, because if I do, then I lose my desire to socialize or if I do go out I am a lot more passive. Therefore, I am willing to give this experiment a go, but only for 3-4 weeks tops, and even then it will be a struggle for me. Of course I will have to forego porn and most sites on the internet that I visit. Heck I may have to forget TV and internet altogether, especially during the first week and a half (this might actually be a good thing). I will be starting on Dec 1 as well
On a side note, it might be an idea if you all were to keep a post going detailing your progress.
BuckwildNYC
Senior Don Juan
Ok big question..... do you mean no SEX too???
i.e. no ejaculations till May?
i.e. no ejaculations till May?
brosnake
Don Juan
Count me in
SamePendo.
I'm in dude. I started 2 weeks ago and I'm not looking back. What I've noticed so far is that it really makes you get that feeling of primal sexuality Gunwitch alludes to in his postings. I've had a night or two where I've pondered giving in but in order to prove to myself that my brain has complete control of my actions I am still 'master of my domain'.
I'm also going on board with socializing for the sake of going socializing. Taking the actions instead of the inactions. Thanks for posting this challenge.
SamePendo.
I'm in dude. I started 2 weeks ago and I'm not looking back. What I've noticed so far is that it really makes you get that feeling of primal sexuality Gunwitch alludes to in his postings. I've had a night or two where I've pondered giving in but in order to prove to myself that my brain has complete control of my actions I am still 'master of my domain'.
I'm also going on board with socializing for the sake of going socializing. Taking the actions instead of the inactions. Thanks for posting this challenge.
mroriginal
Banned
samependo What are the rules?sex or no sex?we need more info from you.
I don't know about him or anyone else, but the point isn't to NOT shoot your load, the purpose is to NOT shoot your load solo (i.e., have a woman do it for you with her hand/mouth/pvssy). Basically, accept no substitute.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
- Status