"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Test levels in men peak after 7 days astaining from orgasm. So I suguest as an idea to wank off once a week aposed to leaving it for 6 months that way you will feel the full and constant benifits of this. A good idea would be to do it on a monday so you would peak each weekend.

If you stop masterbating for 6 months by a fornight night or so your test levels will start becoming disfunct intill you jerk ioff again so it would make the process pointless; I know there's the willpower thing but the benifits of raised test levels and desire will help you with your game, general energy levels and make you feel alot better for it each day.
 
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ramesses said:
Test levels in men peak after 7 days astaining from orgasm. So I suguest as an idea to wank off once a week aposed to leaving it for 6 months that way you will feel the full and constant benifits of this. A good idea would be to do it on a monday so you would peak each weekend.

If you stop masterbating for 6 months by a fornight night or so your test levels will start becoming disfunct intill you jerk ioff again so it would make the process pointless; I know there's the willpower thing but the benifits of raised test levels and desire will help you with your game, general energy levels and make you feel alot better for it each day.
Check out Dr.Ruth over here.

Guys the above quote is hot steamy horse ****.

There have been no studies that state that doing it once a week affects your testosterone levels. The above quote is simply opinion.

I'll tell you why you shouldn't masturbate:

1.It's lame
2.The real thing is much, much better
3.It messes with your sex drive
4.It makes your palms hairy

And don't get me started on masturbating to porn.

Masturbation is cool if you're like 13 and you want to play Bill Nye with your penis, but any grown man who is still beating it needs to seriously stop.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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why are you guys trying not to masturbate?

how will this help your lives?

the testerone will build up after a few days, and for 2 days you'll be easily aggravated, thinking non-stop about sex, your judgement will be seriously clouded

and then after that, your libido will drop immensely and you'll lose all your drive

a healthy masturbation cycle is nessesarry
 

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lordson said:
why are you guys trying not to masturbate?

how will this help your lives?

the testerone will build up after a few days, and for 2 days you'll be easily aggravated, thinking non-stop about sex, your judgement will be seriously clouded

and then after that, your libido will drop immensely and you'll lose all your drive

a healthy masturbation cycle is nessesarry
Exactly. People on this site think quitting masturbation is like some magical ritual that will give you the status of "supreme man-hood". It's become a superstition

There are much better ways to test your strength and will power through exercise, arts, sports, hobbies, or any worthwhile goal.
 

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lordson said:
why are you guys trying not to masturbate?

how will this help your lives?

the testerone will build up after a few days, and for 2 days you'll be easily aggravated, thinking non-stop about sex, your judgement will be seriously clouded

and then after that, your libido will drop immensely and you'll lose all your drive

a healthy masturbation cycle is nessesarry
Yes, I tried this once, and after a few weeks my sex drives drops to nothing and I don't even feel like gym anymore.
 

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i've been through that cycle many a time.

you NEED to relieve youself. its natural, makes you feel better and gives you better focus

theres no unholy or evil stigma around it. not mastubating will not empower you in any way

this thread should be closed
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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HAhAh.. I can't go a week, let alone 6 months. I don't get sex to often(if ever) so I do need this, lol..

I tried going for 2 weeks, but one night I was thinking about oiled up asses, and I spluged my pants without even touching anything... TMI, lol
I love when that happens though...

I don't mind sharing that, it's the web, so...yeah, lol

Goos luck dude, but I'm not placing any bets in your favor...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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