"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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No longer theory but a principal

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tmpgstx

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Well men, i must say. It's only been three days since i jacked it and i feel like a wherewolf ..lol.

I highly recommend this to root the 'nice' - respectable, too appeasing as to not shake things up, kind of guy.

My testosterone level is naturally high, but this shoots it thru the roof. I have plenty to go around, not all used up in the gym.

It's the jerks that get laid but aren't going to the gym consistantly. They're using what testosterone they have to get with women, while us consistant, intelligent, body-building types are using and venting most our testosterone and perfecting ourselves at the gym, not leaving much for the girlz so to speak. We become 'passive' in this manner.

I'm not talking about guys on steroids either, this is totally different as you have a major surplus of the stuff.

You're thinking changes from passive to active. You're no longer thinking 'i wonder if she's got a boyfriend', now you're thinking 'i'm gonna nail that honey'.

You have to control it though, it's easy to become irritated at annoying things (or you find annoying) when surging your testosterone.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Nice theory, however...I recommend that you read The Alchemy of Love and Lust or Google "hormones testosterone" for facts about this subject.
 

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tmpgstx said:
It's the jerks that get laid but aren't going to the gym consistantly. They're using what testosterone they have to get with women, while us consistant, intelligent, body-building types are using and venting most our testosterone and perfecting ourselves at the gym, not leaving much for the girlz so to speak. We become 'passive' in this manner.
I have noticed that when i used to go to the gym all the time, contantly over training, that my drive was lower and also my confidence was knocked, due to all my testosterone being used up by my muscles instead of free flowing.

tmpgstx said:
You're thinking changes from passive to active. You're no longer thinking 'i wonder if she's got a boyfriend', now you're thinking 'i'm gonna nail that honey'.
Your sexual feeling out weigh the negative thoughts. Also you project sexual state.
 
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