"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Well men, i must say. It's only been three days since i jacked it and i feel like a wherewolf ..lol.

I highly recommend this to root the 'nice' - respectable, too appeasing as to not shake things up, kind of guy.

My testosterone level is naturally high, but this shoots it thru the roof. I have plenty to go around, not all used up in the gym.

It's the jerks that get laid but aren't going to the gym consistantly. They're using what testosterone they have to get with women, while us consistant, intelligent, body-building types are using and venting most our testosterone and perfecting ourselves at the gym, not leaving much for the girlz so to speak. We become 'passive' in this manner.

I'm not talking about guys on steroids either, this is totally different as you have a major surplus of the stuff.

You're thinking changes from passive to active. You're no longer thinking 'i wonder if she's got a boyfriend', now you're thinking 'i'm gonna nail that honey'.

You have to control it though, it's easy to become irritated at annoying things (or you find annoying) when surging your testosterone.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Nice theory, however...I recommend that you read The Alchemy of Love and Lust or Google "hormones testosterone" for facts about this subject.
 
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tmpgstx said:
It's the jerks that get laid but aren't going to the gym consistantly. They're using what testosterone they have to get with women, while us consistant, intelligent, body-building types are using and venting most our testosterone and perfecting ourselves at the gym, not leaving much for the girlz so to speak. We become 'passive' in this manner.
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I have noticed that when i used to go to the gym all the time, contantly over training, that my drive was lower and also my confidence was knocked, due to all my testosterone being used up by my muscles instead of free flowing.

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You're thinking changes from passive to active. You're no longer thinking 'i wonder if she's got a boyfriend', now you're thinking 'i'm gonna nail that honey'.
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Your sexual feeling out weigh the negative thoughts. Also you project sexual state.
 
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