"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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No job nor internship experience at age 22.

warrior1

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Hey everyone. Im 22 years old and still in college even though I should have done with it in May. I got lazy and behind. The thing is I never had a job before nor an interview so I am very behind. I changed my major into finance b/c i messed up in my other majo.


I am taking classes back in August in my 5th year so I really dont know what I am getting myself into. Taking finance classes but no idea where I am going. To any finance major graduates or finance majors, where do i begin? Obviously, most ppl would say go find an internship but what kind of internship am i looking for? I feel horrible about myself b/c I dont even know how to use microsoft excel or powerpoints even though i done projects before. Usually it was someone in my group who done it.

Is it good to look for banking or investing? I heard about hedge funds but all of this i know completely nothing about b/c i only taken one finance class only.

Anyone can help ? thanks.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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horaholic

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You should be getting all the answers you need in your school. Talk to your teachers, or counselers, or better yet someone who has actually made it in the real world doing finance or whatever you are aiming at.
 

comic_relief

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Your still better off then me because the only job that I have ever had was mascotting work at my university for real jobs.

I'm a philosophy major and there is no internships that you can get for that major.

What kind of volunteerism/not-for-profit work have you done?

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DarthAngel707

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get a job as a teller and get into the college of business and take finance courses.

hedge funds are for ivy-leaguers. And learn excel and powerpoint. I'm sure your local community college teaches those courses.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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