"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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No job nor internship experience at age 22.

warrior1

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Hey everyone. Im 22 years old and still in college even though I should have done with it in May. I got lazy and behind. The thing is I never had a job before nor an interview so I am very behind. I changed my major into finance b/c i messed up in my other majo.


I am taking classes back in August in my 5th year so I really dont know what I am getting myself into. Taking finance classes but no idea where I am going. To any finance major graduates or finance majors, where do i begin? Obviously, most ppl would say go find an internship but what kind of internship am i looking for? I feel horrible about myself b/c I dont even know how to use microsoft excel or powerpoints even though i done projects before. Usually it was someone in my group who done it.

Is it good to look for banking or investing? I heard about hedge funds but all of this i know completely nothing about b/c i only taken one finance class only.

Anyone can help ? thanks.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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horaholic

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You should be getting all the answers you need in your school. Talk to your teachers, or counselers, or better yet someone who has actually made it in the real world doing finance or whatever you are aiming at.
 

comic_relief

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Your still better off then me because the only job that I have ever had was mascotting work at my university for real jobs.

I'm a philosophy major and there is no internships that you can get for that major.

What kind of volunteerism/not-for-profit work have you done?

comic_relief
 

DarthAngel707

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get a job as a teller and get into the college of business and take finance courses.

hedge funds are for ivy-leaguers. And learn excel and powerpoint. I'm sure your local community college teaches those courses.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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