"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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cruisecontrol

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My name is cruise and I am an AFC.

There. Step 1. Got it off my chest.

I've been lurking through the fora and the DJ Bible on and off since being introduced to it by a friend several years ago. I've learned plenty and have been improving myself tremendously since I first found this community. I'm going on 21 and am no longer the terrible AFC I was in high school. I've had success in various contexts, but am still far far away from being anywhere near a DJ.

I'm starting my junior year (sort of) in uni and I've just transfered in to a new school in a new town chock full of new opportunities. However, I'm pretty sure I can't go it alone. I just finished reading through a whole stack of old posts out of the Bible and I'm refreshing my outlook on life (some of Pook's stuff is GENIUS!), but I'm almost certain that if I don't make a serious commitment to self-improvement, I'll just end up back where I started. I'm registering now to share my sentiments and hope to glean some bits of wisdom from the fellas here who are greater men than I.

Here's to making a commitment to personal growth and achievement in all walks of life. Hope you guys can keep me on the straight and narrow ;)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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penkitten

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welcome to the board, buckle up, for it is a bumpy ride :)
 

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Pook is the best friend a man can ever have. Trust his wisdom
 
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