"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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cruisecontrol

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My name is cruise and I am an AFC.

There. Step 1. Got it off my chest.

I've been lurking through the fora and the DJ Bible on and off since being introduced to it by a friend several years ago. I've learned plenty and have been improving myself tremendously since I first found this community. I'm going on 21 and am no longer the terrible AFC I was in high school. I've had success in various contexts, but am still far far away from being anywhere near a DJ.

I'm starting my junior year (sort of) in uni and I've just transfered in to a new school in a new town chock full of new opportunities. However, I'm pretty sure I can't go it alone. I just finished reading through a whole stack of old posts out of the Bible and I'm refreshing my outlook on life (some of Pook's stuff is GENIUS!), but I'm almost certain that if I don't make a serious commitment to self-improvement, I'll just end up back where I started. I'm registering now to share my sentiments and hope to glean some bits of wisdom from the fellas here who are greater men than I.

Here's to making a commitment to personal growth and achievement in all walks of life. Hope you guys can keep me on the straight and narrow ;)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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penkitten

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welcome to the board, buckle up, for it is a bumpy ride :)
 

Obsidian

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Pook is the best friend a man can ever have. Trust his wisdom
 
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