"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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NO Interest? pursue?

kingxxxman

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I know this should be in the HS school section cuz its a high school scenario but i think it applies anywhere. I was trying to open up with a HB7.5 that i hadn't had a class with in like 2 years. She has the sorta shy personality and she sorta seems emotionless alot of the time.... so obviously i hit on her and she gives like one word answers that seem uninterested.. and this is like any guy as far as i know.... what shall i do? continue my efforts or ditch? or what are ways to break this barrier.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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No, move on.

Unless you save her little brother from cancer, she's not changing. Even then, you'll just get friend zoned.
 

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This is funny. HB 7.5? The girl I fuvked last weekend must have been a 7.75 then. But seriously, keep pursuing dude. Fuvk it. Let her say the words "Leave me the fuvk alone". Then you stop. Just be flirty, compliment her, mind fuvk her. One day act like you love her, next day act like you don't know her. Kind of the same war tactics that were used by females to me when I was in high school.
 

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i think that will work... she is still a girl even though she doesn't really display emotion... its still there..
 

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it's a waste of time. Only do it with the ones in relationships.

You cant expect anything good from zombie creatures like this one. Some of them are just plain strange, christian, BPD, or who knows what. If she doesnt let anything good to shine through, it's likely there is nothing to be found in there except for the void.

most of it is likely having to do with the age.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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idk... i think it could make for an interesting project possibly....she is still a hb7 at least
 

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kingxxxman said:
idk... i think it could make for an interesting project possibly....she is still a hb7 at least
given you ve got time and effort to put in.
 

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only gonna pursue it when i see her.... not much worth in anything else.... maybe a prom date cuz shes good lookin? but if she doesn't open up, i'll just ditch her.
 
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