"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I know this should be in the HS school section cuz its a high school scenario but i think it applies anywhere. I was trying to open up with a HB7.5 that i hadn't had a class with in like 2 years. She has the sorta shy personality and she sorta seems emotionless alot of the time.... so obviously i hit on her and she gives like one word answers that seem uninterested.. and this is like any guy as far as i know.... what shall i do? continue my efforts or ditch? or what are ways to break this barrier.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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No, move on.

Unless you save her little brother from cancer, she's not changing. Even then, you'll just get friend zoned.
 
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This is funny. HB 7.5? The girl I fuvked last weekend must have been a 7.75 then. But seriously, keep pursuing dude. Fuvk it. Let her say the words "Leave me the fuvk alone". Then you stop. Just be flirty, compliment her, mind fuvk her. One day act like you love her, next day act like you don't know her. Kind of the same war tactics that were used by females to me when I was in high school.
 
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i think that will work... she is still a girl even though she doesn't really display emotion... its still there..
 
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it's a waste of time. Only do it with the ones in relationships.

You cant expect anything good from zombie creatures like this one. Some of them are just plain strange, christian, BPD, or who knows what. If she doesnt let anything good to shine through, it's likely there is nothing to be found in there except for the void.

most of it is likely having to do with the age.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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idk... i think it could make for an interesting project possibly....she is still a hb7 at least
 
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idk... i think it could make for an interesting project possibly....she is still a hb7 at least
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given you ve got time and effort to put in.
 
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only gonna pursue it when i see her.... not much worth in anything else.... maybe a prom date cuz shes good lookin? but if she doesn't open up, i'll just ditch her.
 
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