The biggest problem with me is i have no initiative. I can get ride of shyness and all that, but i just cant move, and do what needs to be done. I'm ****ing lazy, and it's killing me i got all these huge urges to talk to girls and date them, but i cant move. It's pretty weird. I need help
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
no ****ing initiative
- Thread starter Rint
- Start date