"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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no ****ing initiative

Rint

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The biggest problem with me is i have no initiative. I can get ride of shyness and all that, but i just cant move, and do what needs to be done. I'm ****ing lazy, and it's killing me i got all these huge urges to talk to girls and date them, but i cant move. It's pretty weird. I need help
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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oakraiderz2

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Stop making excuses. Dont do drugs.
 
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I bet I'll do more approaches than you. Get part of the approach challenge and start competing or bite the dust. I'll need you to feel good if I lose the challenge since I'll always be on approach further than you.
 
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