"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hello guys, I'm new to here. Seems like a cool forum! I picked up this girl in a mall. We dated once and it went really well I took her to bed. She was very complementary of me and seemed liking me a lot. She added me on Facebook and I accepted her. We scheduled two additional dates and every time she cancelled in the last minute -- which really kinda pissed me off but of course i didn't tell her. Then one day she Facebook messaged me, saying she felt weird about having sex on the first date and she needed some space… Then our communication slowly died -- she wasn't so responsive afterwards.

I am just confused. Is it really because of sex on first date? Did she see something on Facebook? At this point I'm not really interested in her any more, so should I just ask her about it?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I don't see the point in asking her. You'll only come across as beta, desperate and clueless. Once a girl has lost interest, best to just move on.
 
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most of the time the sex wasnt good anough.. lay down the pipe good and she'll be coming back for more.
 
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Jair213 said:
most of the time the sex wasnt good anough.. lay down the pipe good and she'll be coming back for more.
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That's actually also one thing I suspect. To be honest, I didn't enjoy it so much either -- she's a little too skinny. But after that night she mentioned to me a couple times it was a great night, so I assumed she enjoyed it.
 
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Best bet is to go no contact, go ghost im sure she'll wonder and reach out to you. Dont break it keep NC
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'd just delete her and fugghetaboutit. I mean you already got the sex and said it wasn't really all that. Do you really care what a girls reason is when you admit that she wasn't all that to begin with? I've had girls give me the "I feel like a slvt now" routine the next day. Most of the time it doesn't have anything to do with you.
 
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LeonSK said:
That's actually also one thing I suspect. To be honest, I didn't enjoy it so much either -- she's a little too skinny. But after that night she mentioned to me a couple times it was a great night, so I assumed she enjoyed it.
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trust me on this bro if you didnt really enjoy it she probably didnt either, but yeah i could tell that you didnt really find her really sexually atractive(too skinny)

its all good bro. it doesnt matter wtf she thinks.. next her
 
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When a Hoe Leaves Your A$$, Don’t Try to Figure It Out

All women are fickle. Hoes are no different. Women function on 99.9% emotions. B*tches leave for the dumbest reasons or no reason at all. Least of all the reason you think it is. And I’ll tell you something else, if you know why the hoe left, you weren’t pimpin’. If a real pimp spots a problem he’s obligated to solve it. That’s why when a hoe leaves you’re not suppose to know why.”-Rosebudd the American Pimp by John D!ckson
 
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