No Idea What Went Wrong

[LeonSK]

Hello guys, I'm new to here. Seems like a cool forum! I picked up this girl in a mall. We dated once and it went really well I took her to bed. She was very complementary of me and seemed liking me a lot. She added me on Facebook and I accepted her. We scheduled two additional dates and every time she cancelled in the last minute -- which really kinda pissed me off but of course i didn't tell her. Then one day she Facebook messaged me, saying she felt weird about having sex on the first date and she needed some space… Then our communication slowly died -- she wasn't so responsive afterwards.

I am just confused. Is it really because of sex on first date? Did she see something on Facebook? At this point I'm not really interested in her any more, so should I just ask her about it?

 

[DarkDetective50]

I don't see the point in asking her. You'll only come across as beta, desperate and clueless. Once a girl has lost interest, best to just move on.

 

[Jair213]

most of the time the sex wasnt good anough.. lay down the pipe good and she'll be coming back for more.

 

[LeonSK]

most of the time the sex wasnt good anough.. lay down the pipe good and she'll be coming back for more.

That's actually also one thing I suspect. To be honest, I didn't enjoy it so much either -- she's a little too skinny. But after that night she mentioned to me a couple times it was a great night, so I assumed she enjoyed it.

 

[TheGambino]

Best bet is to go no contact, go ghost im sure she'll wonder and reach out to you. Dont break it keep NC

 

[Robert28]

I'd just delete her and fugghetaboutit. I mean you already got the sex and said it wasn't really all that. Do you really care what a girls reason is when you admit that she wasn't all that to begin with? I've had girls give me the "I feel like a slvt now" routine the next day. Most of the time it doesn't have anything to do with you.

 

[Jair213]

That's actually also one thing I suspect. To be honest, I didn't enjoy it so much either -- she's a little too skinny. But after that night she mentioned to me a couple times it was a great night, so I assumed she enjoyed it.

trust me on this bro if you didnt really enjoy it she probably didnt either, but yeah i could tell that you didnt really find her really sexually atractive(too skinny)

its all good bro. it doesnt matter wtf she thinks.. next her

 

[Maximus Rex]

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When a Hoe Leaves Your A$$, Don’t Try to Figure It Out

All women are fickle. Hoes are no different. Women function on 99.9% emotions. B*tches leave for the dumbest reasons or no reason at all. Least of all the reason you think it is. And I’ll tell you something else, if you know why the hoe left, you weren’t pimpin’. If a real pimp spots a problem he’s obligated to solve it. That’s why when a hoe leaves you’re not suppose to know why.”-Rosebudd the American Pimp by John D!ckson