"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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No homo but I have hot eyes

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I'm your typical black guy, black hair, brown eyes, brown skin. Yet, every time I look in a mirror, I end up staring at myself for a couple of minutes because my eyes are so damn hot. The irises are radiant and reflect the light of the room, highlighting the jet black pupil so beautifully.

I digress. I have hot eyes, but I've never received a compliment on them. The world doesn't appreciate.

Discuss eye aesthetics here.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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this is one of the sure signs that you play for the other team. the limit on staring at your own eyes in the mirror is 45secs and I see you have exceeded that. not good...not good.
 

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Lol your right I have them too and nobody appreciates them.
Girls with green eyes catch my attention.
 

Wiesman44

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How do u see a black person at night ?

Look for the whites in their eyes :) :)
 

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I get lots of compliments on my eyes, more often when I wear a green shirt (to match my eyes). It happened a lot more when I was a kid though.

I use them to help my game by almost intentionally over-emphasizing them; such as taking advantage of those deep stairdowns when the opportunity arises. This works great at close range!

But you know what? Looks is just a starting point. It takes a heck of a lot more than that for success with women. Even the best looking of us need to use DJ principles to be successful with women.

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btw, this thread ranks at least an 8 out of 10, on a gay scale.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I think it's cool to have a postive atittude about your appearance or eyes there is nothing wrong with that as most people find fault with themselves.

I have been told I have sexy eyes their blue and green but due to a eye nerve condition the focus usually goes more to it then just focusing on my eyes.

In time some beauty will come along to compliment those eyes of yours she'll have a fetish for brown eyes then you'll be in trouble:D

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Flabbergasped? said:
I'm your typical black guy, black hair, brown eyes, brown skin. Yet, every time I look in a mirror, I end up staring at myself for a couple of minutes because my eyes are so damn hot. The irises are radiant and reflect the light of the room, highlighting the jet black pupil so beautifully.

I digress. I have hot eyes, but I've never received a compliment on them. The world doesn't appreciate.

Discuss eye aesthetics here.
 

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That's not gay at all, that's narcissism. Which in moderate amounts is healthy. It's when you'd go gay for yourself that your narcissism is out of control.
 

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I was so turned on last week that I started humping the mirror and ended up with glass shards in my wang.

(no homo)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Wiesman44, in my heart this type of joke telling is wrong..This is no place for this ignorant sh*t or any place for that matter...not cool man search your heart.

LoneSilver

Wiesman44 said:
How do u see a black person at night ?

Look for the whites in their eyes :) :)
 

AlexTheGreat

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LoneSilver said:
Wiesman44, in my heart this type of joke telling is wrong..This is no place for this ignorant sh*t or any place for that matter...not cool man search your heart.

LoneSilver

I won't comment on the rightness or wrongness of the joke, but I think the simple fact that the joke sucked is enough to discredit it from this thread.
 
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