Hey, I've been in the dating scene for a while and have had my experience(s) with a lot of chicks at my school. However, it seems to me that as I go in for my senior year, I look back on the dates that I've been and etc. and feel as if I've wasted my time. Now I'm ready to settle down and have a steady relationship (until maybe when I decide on a college). Now here is the problem, because I've dated various girls taht I was interested in... I think I have limited amount of girls to choose from and the odd thing is <- these girls are really my type or are they willing to date... Help a brother out here, what should I do?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
No Girls = No Fun
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
drummer
Senior Don Juan
Don't go in looking or expecting a LTR, see how you interact, and how well you do together, and make your choice based off of that, not some idea that you really need to "get serious" with the first girl you see, DON'T SETTLE.
And about kind of depleted sources for girls at your school, start looking at other school's girls as well.
And about kind of depleted sources for girls at your school, start looking at other school's girls as well.
WC2
Master Don Juan
Ha. Now that it's your senior year in high school you feel as if you need to settle down?
Bro, you're just approaching the tip of a huge iceberg of opportunity. Don't lock yourself down into anything. From senior year of HS to senior of college is by far the best years of your life. Don't waste them on a LTR or even worse, a LTR which you are envisioning.
Play the field, have fun. The next 4 years of your life are going to shape who you are as a person. Do you want to grow up being that guy who's chained to GF or do you want to grow up being that guy who has girls chained to him?
If a LTR starts to happen, then it happens. But it shouldn't be envisioned before it happens. It should just happen. Most of all, make sure you want it 100%. Theres nothing worse then a wasted relationship.
Bro, you're just approaching the tip of a huge iceberg of opportunity. Don't lock yourself down into anything. From senior year of HS to senior of college is by far the best years of your life. Don't waste them on a LTR or even worse, a LTR which you are envisioning.
Play the field, have fun. The next 4 years of your life are going to shape who you are as a person. Do you want to grow up being that guy who's chained to GF or do you want to grow up being that guy who has girls chained to him?
If a LTR starts to happen, then it happens. But it shouldn't be envisioned before it happens. It should just happen. Most of all, make sure you want it 100%. Theres nothing worse then a wasted relationship.
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Lol my problem is that theres not very many good lookin girls in my school. So going into my senior year, im not really excited at all for it because A) There isnt very many girl options and B) Im friends with a lot of people but secretly I think they all are pretty gay people that wouldnt last a second at a cooler high school. My advice to you is to not settle down and to realize your life is about to completely change a year from now. It definitely will be a change for the better. I have a friend who just got into college and hes in a relationship with a HS junior. She doesnt even give him any and hes stuck on her! So hes in college just sittin around! You dont want to be like that do you?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.