"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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No girls at my job, quit and be a flight attendant.

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I want to work a job where I am surrounded by women. And seeing different women all the time with the chance of hooking up. I did the bartending thing and although it was good it was the same drunk girls night after night.

I thought of being a flight attendant because it would be good way have fun and get laid.
I have a college education and worked many careers. Not gay which gives me plenty of options. Just bored. More to life than just making money. I want to exercise the benefits.
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The_flying_dutchman

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...you think having no women at your job is a bad thing??? you should thank your lucky stars... trust me man, if you ever end up working in corporate america you'll come to realize that women cause so much trouble in the work place with their gossiping and drama...
 

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I want to work a job where I am surrounded by women. And seeing different women all the time with the chance of hooking up. I did the bartending thing and although it was good it was the same drunk girls night after night.
Sounds like you had what you wanted. You might be bored with girls in general. All I know is what you just posted. Not really going to be much better than a bartender as far as getting easy lays. Maybe a physical trainer? Or a porn star maybe.
 

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porn definitely. At my age--unless a director likes an older man then I am game.
I enjoy working with women -- especially hot ones.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Work is for money. You want girls, find a way to be social. Join networking groups, social groups, toastmasters. The WORST EXPERIENCE of my life was working with girl I'd broken up with and HAD to see her every day. (This was way back in high school).
 

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Want to "work" with women go down to the welfare office waiting room. Plenty of single mommies there. When I worked for the State I was there sometimes. I even heard some call their welfare their "paycheck". I prefer no women at my work their presence is counter productive to the world .
 

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A bunch of women haters in here. geez, no wonder you all need this site as a crutch. Show some love towards women.
 

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A bunch of women haters in here. geez, no wonder you all need this site as a crutch. Show some love towards women.
lol You are welcome to show them all the love you want, and then let us know how that works out for ya. Why don't you go to work at a beauty shop or women's clothing store. Maybe you will get what you are looking for.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Being a pimp is good for meeting women. However, you need to worry about the law.

In terms of being a flight attendant...IDK man. They are ****ing ugly old chicks or gay guys in my experience.

Nursing is like 85% women and college education level. Therefore anything in a hospital will put you around many decently smart women.

Being a milkman puts you in front of a lot of horny wives.

Being a househusband means you can join the PTA. You can **** wives that way.

If you become a teacher, you work with a lot of women. In general, that field is recently becoming more balanced than say nursing or flight attendant but still...everything is kinda balancing with time.

If you become a model agency scout, you might meet some HB10s ;)
 

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Fvck every other job... Be an English Teacher, love your life. Our job is basically the same with less alcohol and more sex. Most of us don't have degrees... I barely had highschool.
 

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Teaching karate and defensive shooting has given me many worthwhile ladies.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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that's right, and because i chose well, it's never a risk for me. For YOU, probably better stick to slow, fat sows.
 

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yep, spent 15k finding one who'l pay me 30k per year, cash (along with getting her here).
 

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lol, ok well me 2... you did it your way and I did it mine. :) I spent 5k getting mine here but we almost didn't make it back at all. I think we might be 2 sides of the same coin.
 

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Mine's Filipina. She's 28 now, with a daughter almost turning 6 yo
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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