"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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No girls at my job, quit and be a flight attendant.

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I want to work a job where I am surrounded by women. And seeing different women all the time with the chance of hooking up. I did the bartending thing and although it was good it was the same drunk girls night after night.

I thought of being a flight attendant because it would be good way have fun and get laid.
I have a college education and worked many careers. Not gay which gives me plenty of options. Just bored. More to life than just making money. I want to exercise the benefits.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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...you think having no women at your job is a bad thing??? you should thank your lucky stars... trust me man, if you ever end up working in corporate america you'll come to realize that women cause so much trouble in the work place with their gossiping and drama...
 
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I want to work a job where I am surrounded by women. And seeing different women all the time with the chance of hooking up. I did the bartending thing and although it was good it was the same drunk girls night after night.
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Sounds like you had what you wanted. You might be bored with girls in general. All I know is what you just posted. Not really going to be much better than a bartender as far as getting easy lays. Maybe a physical trainer? Or a porn star maybe.
 
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porn definitely. At my age--unless a director likes an older man then I am game.
I enjoy working with women -- especially hot ones.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Work is for money. You want girls, find a way to be social. Join networking groups, social groups, toastmasters. The WORST EXPERIENCE of my life was working with girl I'd broken up with and HAD to see her every day. (This was way back in high school).
 
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Want to "work" with women go down to the welfare office waiting room. Plenty of single mommies there. When I worked for the State I was there sometimes. I even heard some call their welfare their "paycheck". I prefer no women at my work their presence is counter productive to the world .
 
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A bunch of women haters in here. geez, no wonder you all need this site as a crutch. Show some love towards women.
 
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A bunch of women haters in here. geez, no wonder you all need this site as a crutch. Show some love towards women.
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lol You are welcome to show them all the love you want, and then let us know how that works out for ya. Why don't you go to work at a beauty shop or women's clothing store. Maybe you will get what you are looking for.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Being a pimp is good for meeting women. However, you need to worry about the law.

In terms of being a flight attendant...IDK man. They are ****ing ugly old chicks or gay guys in my experience.

Nursing is like 85% women and college education level. Therefore anything in a hospital will put you around many decently smart women.

Being a milkman puts you in front of a lot of horny wives.

Being a househusband means you can join the PTA. You can **** wives that way.

If you become a teacher, you work with a lot of women. In general, that field is recently becoming more balanced than say nursing or flight attendant but still...everything is kinda balancing with time.

If you become a model agency scout, you might meet some HB10s ;)
 
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Fvck every other job... Be an English Teacher, love your life. Our job is basically the same with less alcohol and more sex. Most of us don't have degrees... I barely had highschool.
 
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Teaching karate and defensive shooting has given me many worthwhile ladies.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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that's right, and because i chose well, it's never a risk for me. For YOU, probably better stick to slow, fat sows.
 
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yep, spent 15k finding one who'l pay me 30k per year, cash (along with getting her here).
 
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lol, ok well me 2... you did it your way and I did it mine. :) I spent 5k getting mine here but we almost didn't make it back at all. I think we might be 2 sides of the same coin.
 
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Mine's Filipina. She's 28 now, with a daughter almost turning 6 yo
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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