"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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SharinganUser

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Yeah, go out, have fun and enjoy life. When you look back on your life are you really going to say you wasted it worrying about having a gf?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Yes.Thats just been one of many things bothering me. The whole always single thing.And I dont mean like single by choice,I mean single as in no game/dating skills,my own fault for not developing them, and just feeling like I can't do it. Im slowly starting to come out of this depression i have been feeling for some time,feeling depressed over alot of things,alot of it is socially related though,And Ive realized i need a serious change in attitude,I dont wakt up everyday thinking "I can do this",I wake up more with,"****.not again",know what I mean? My whole inner game needs some serious reworking.Ive been listening to that negative voice for too long,and its caused me to be lazy,fearful,and not going for what i want to go for.Does this sound serious?
 
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I know how you feel! I am 24 and never had a girlfriend! It's really getting on my nerves! I am really shy and don't have good social skills when it comes to girls. I spend a lot of time online socializing with girls, it's a different story when you meet them in person!
 
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I really don't think how much experience you have matters as much as people proclaim. I went from having never having a second of remotely sexual contact (never had even held hands before) to getting a bj from my now gf who i've been with for a year and am still going strong with. I get looks from women all of the time not just because of my looks, but because of how i carry myself. Best (or worst) of all I still have plenty of problems, but I've gotten to t he point where i dont advertise them anymore and therefore am desirable.

As for the experience issue, my gf has been more than happy to teach me the stuff that other guys my age know. I simply make sure that what I learn is on my own terms and that I'm not some piece of clay for her to turn into what she wants me to be. If anything I get more get out of jail free cards. Also, when I excel at something I'm not experienced at, it just makes her wonder how good i will be once I've gotten experience. Sex is really good because I master each technique then discover someting entirely new, so it's constantly getting better and she likes that.
 
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