Lost, I would like to help, but there are a lot of issues here.
And truthfully, I get the feeling you are eitehr not trying to understand things here, and perhaps prefer to wallow in negativity.
I don't bel;ieve you are really understanding the information on this site, and all the seduction material that isout there.
Have you read the Book of Pook?
Anything by David Deangelo?
Do you realize that being a Man means doing a lot of things at once? Multi Tasking?
Meaning you work , grow as a Man, learn, improve, take care of responsibilities and obligations, AND go out 'sarging" and/or enjoying the company of Women?
I know some people have implied that you must FIRST 'improve yourself" THEN 'get the chicks."
And that may work for some, but maybe not ALL.
Which is why we use our intellect to DISCERN what may work well FOR US.
Why NOT work on maximizing your potential in Life, and as a Man??
You are just really young, man.
You are talkng this way because you are so incredibly inexpereinced.
This is NOT a moral failing though. You are not a worhtless person becasue you are young and thus, have less life expereinces to draw from.
BUt you MUST realzie that if I, or anyone WELL MEANING, offers advice, sound ADVICE to you, that it is for your BENEFIT ,and for you to take into account.
It always sounds like you say "Yeah, I do that, but it never works!"
Have you tried to SElF Reflect? Or are you just beating yourself up again and again?
Have you looked at your appearance?
Your speech?
Your clothes?
Your breath?
Are you coming across as confident, or insecure?
Your body language?
Are tyou coming across as wishy washy and without opinions or preferences?
Your posture?
Do you have an Identity?
Are you interesting?
Are you coming across as sexual and masculine?
Are you coming across as needy, clingy, try hard, miscalibrated, socially awkward, etc
Do you REALZIE that just becasue you like a chick, it DOES NOT automatically mean that she is supposed to LIKE YOU back?
Do you realize that girls at that age hardly know themselves and their bodies, and their sexuality? They are immature and inexpereinced too?
And many cannot handle a mature relationship of ANY KIND?
Ae you EXPECTING too much form females, and people in general, and yourself?
I think you better look deep into these quations, Lost.
And also, I want you to think about the message a LOT of guys on here are sending, making FEMALES the entire POINT of their LIFE.
Do you know HOW MUCH that REEKS of DESPERATION?
Do you know just how needy and desperate and how it makes them seem like they're ready to commit suicide because they don't have a GF?
Knowing FULL WELL that girls will NOT choose the NEEDY and DESPERATE guy who NEEDS a GF right NOW??!!
Girls call those guys "creepy." And 'desperate" and 'needy".
And the creepy guys hate girls for thinking that. But it's true.
"I hate the world, because the World is NOT GIVING me what I want on a Silver Platter!!"'
Is that you?
I know it is a lot of people on here, but is this really YOU TOO?
And , their LIFE SUCKS, but they don't want to change it? And put down other people who do, and who advocate improving onself and one's LIFE???
What is happening here is a TOTAL lack of understanding, and a TOTAL LACK of mature masculinity.
Think about that.
And then TELL ME that these creepy, desperate, bitter and needy guys are the guys who have it right.
