"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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No female meets this criteria. Help me trim it

BetterCallSaul

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So essentially you just came here to ***** and moan about not finding a woman who meets at least a majority of the percentage of your criteria. Got it.

I mean...
I think its reasonable. Otherwise chicks will run all over us.
I for sure don't want a drop out...or a lazy couch potato...and of course don't speak to me like my mother.
How is that too high a standard?
Good luck.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm not whining...you guys did in fact help me trim my standards.
According to the majority here, women aren't as cool as I thought they could be.
Makes it easier in a way.
 

marmel75

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You really think so bro?
I learned two languages in high school...learned the next through youtube and Rosetta Stone.
13 inches... Sure bro. I didn't ask for a tight hymen...building schools in Ethiopia. I didn't ask for that either.

You failed to mention that I like a humble girl.etc.
I think my list is fine. I asked if there was one thing or things you would help and remove from my criteria.
I guess you choose the bilingual thing.
Fair enough.
I grew up speaking two... Learned another on my own time. I value that. You don't

Who the fvck cares how many languages a woman speaks? I'm bilingual because my dad is from a foreign country, big fvcking deal.

This post is the epitome of nonsense.
 

Julian

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i think your focusing too much on the microeconomics.

what you want is a good girl thats fit and has a good head on her shoulders that respects you
 
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