"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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No female meets this criteria. Help me trim it

BetterCallSaul

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So essentially you just came here to ***** and moan about not finding a woman who meets at least a majority of the percentage of your criteria. Got it.

I mean...
I think its reasonable. Otherwise chicks will run all over us.
I for sure don't want a drop out...or a lazy couch potato...and of course don't speak to me like my mother.
How is that too high a standard?
Good luck.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm not whining...you guys did in fact help me trim my standards.
According to the majority here, women aren't as cool as I thought they could be.
Makes it easier in a way.
 

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You really think so bro?
I learned two languages in high school...learned the next through youtube and Rosetta Stone.
13 inches... Sure bro. I didn't ask for a tight hymen...building schools in Ethiopia. I didn't ask for that either.

You failed to mention that I like a humble girl.etc.
I think my list is fine. I asked if there was one thing or things you would help and remove from my criteria.
I guess you choose the bilingual thing.
Fair enough.
I grew up speaking two... Learned another on my own time. I value that. You don't

Who the fvck cares how many languages a woman speaks? I'm bilingual because my dad is from a foreign country, big fvcking deal.

This post is the epitome of nonsense.
 

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i think your focusing too much on the microeconomics.

what you want is a good girl thats fit and has a good head on her shoulders that respects you
 
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