Cerwin Vega
Master Don Juan
Let's go
MY GOAL: 30 days
MY GOAL: 30 days
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
No-Fap challenge
- Thread starter Cerwin Vega
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I am on Day 3, and since this challenge is 30 days I may give it ago. Have been doing this challenge for a few years now and go a few weeks from time to time to a few days and then lapse, a bit of extra motivation won't hurt.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
PeasantPlayer
Master Don Juan
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Month 4 started July 14th. Its get easier, but lately I just want to wank it a little. Still embarrassed by my experience I posted on here a week ago about making out with a chick and busting a load in my pants
Meisterman
Senior Don Juan
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How often are you guys getting laid that allows you to easily go weeks/months without fapping at all?
Emotionist
Don Juan
I´m also in. Starting now.
Jair213
Master Don Juan
dont edge or watch porn.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Cerwin Vega
Master Don Juan
I must confess, being in a relationship makes it so much easier.Meisterman said:
Rocky_Wayne
Don Juan
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Eadser but you dont get the same benefits.CerwinVegaFan said:
Cerwin Vega
Master Don Juan
For me, no capping is more of a principle thing rather than testosterone increase. If anything, my receding hair at 21 says I have enough T.
Jair213
Master Don Juan
Day 2.
Keep it up fellas.
Keep it up fellas.
Cerwin Vega
Master Don Juan
Day 6
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Jair213
Master Don Juan
day 3
so far so good
so far so good
Jair213
Master Don Juan
Day 4
Cerwin Vega
Master Don Juan
Starting day 8
Jair213
Master Don Juan
Day 5
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.