Cerwin Vega
Master Don Juan
Let's go
MY GOAL: 30 days
MY GOAL: 30 days
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
No-Fap challenge
- Thread starter Cerwin Vega
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I am on Day 3, and since this challenge is 30 days I may give it ago. Have been doing this challenge for a few years now and go a few weeks from time to time to a few days and then lapse, a bit of extra motivation won't hurt.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
PeasantPlayer
Master Don Juan
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Month 4 started July 14th. Its get easier, but lately I just want to wank it a little. Still embarrassed by my experience I posted on here a week ago about making out with a chick and busting a load in my pants
Meisterman
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How often are you guys getting laid that allows you to easily go weeks/months without fapping at all?
Emotionist
Don Juan
I´m also in. Starting now.
Jair213
Master Don Juan
dont edge or watch porn.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Cerwin Vega
Master Don Juan
I must confess, being in a relationship makes it so much easier.Meisterman said:
Rocky_Wayne
Don Juan
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Eadser but you dont get the same benefits.CerwinVegaFan said:
Cerwin Vega
Master Don Juan
For me, no capping is more of a principle thing rather than testosterone increase. If anything, my receding hair at 21 says I have enough T.
Jair213
Master Don Juan
Day 2.
Keep it up fellas.
Keep it up fellas.
Cerwin Vega
Master Don Juan
Day 6
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Jair213
Master Don Juan
day 3
so far so good
so far so good
Jair213
Master Don Juan
Day 4
Cerwin Vega
Master Don Juan
Starting day 8
Jair213
Master Don Juan
Day 5
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.