No Fap Challenge Progress

[PeasantPlayer]

That article says find a women get married.....sounds outdated

 

[ovoxo]

It's saying that most men reach their greatest heights with the influence of a women either good or bad. Obviously the preferable situation is being in a healthy relationship with a chick who has her head screwed on straight. But it's a 2 step process. Master the use of transmutation to live a fulfilling life and push you towards your goals relentlessly, THEN girls will naturally be attracted by your drive, sense of self accomplishment, aura, charisma, etc. They say the best grounds for a relationship are after the man has learned control over himself, cause otherwise your prone to the female using and withholding sex to manipulate you... You can't rule over a female and your future family properly if you can't even rule over your own body.

 

[YoungSir4sho]

On my 2nd day... Feels like it gets harder to not fap after the 5th day smh..

 

[Sosore]

:rockon: Yeah its just P*ssy man.

After almost a month of no fap.

1. I lose considerate amount of weight around 3 kgs/2weeks with freeletics before 8kgs/6 months with diet.
2. I continue to write my book without hesitation.
3. Ive been to 4 dates. 3 tonsil hockeys, 1 failed (HB9), I got laid once.
4. I talk to everyone and I am happy.
5. I feel like bulletproof. I dont consider life right now a drama. It is always a challenge.
7. I pressed my clothes, fixed my posture, and teach myself how to walk properly.
8. I eat less, drink beer less, and I dont love sleep anymore.

FYI, I am an ugly short overweight asian. I am five foot three mess with cellulite everywhere. Before, i keep on seeking the meaning of life and its mysteries. Yeahp, I read tons of bull**** from being a PUA, changing my mindset, and every self-help mumbo jumbo I can pick on the internet.

Then something happened. I watch limitless by BRADLEY COOPER. A wreck turned into a DON JUAN but of course with drugs. But thats not the point. . I can still remember BRADLEY COOPER telling something to his self "If I keep myself stationary, I think I will explode". That made me try no-fapping after reading some reviews here on the thread. After a week, I think I will explode. I never amass 1 week supply of testosterone since I learned to fap when I was in grade school. My body just remembers all I did read and my acquired knowledge during my fapping days.

I searched motivation on youtube and i cried 1 litter of tears why did I waste my life for how many years of inactivity. I am super pumped out now. As in none will get in my way....:rockon:

Don Pepot, your story is ****ing epic!
Very inspiring.
The the last couple of days I have been able to relate to A LOT of what you are describing (I am about 10 days).
This is amazing! ...and so easy, feels like cheating

 

[Don Pepot]

Don Pepot, your story is ****ing epic!
Very inspiring.
The the last couple of days I have been able to relate to A LOT of what you are describing (I am about 10 days).
This is amazing! ...and so easy, feels like cheating

:rockon:

Yeah dude...

Enjoy the ride. I have a date last night. Though I have some mistakes and didnt escalate well (or maybe she was too damn devastated by just recently broke up with her bf) still it was a good night.

PICK UP THE PIECES!! And fix your life... I am happy and I am a living proof that still LIFE IS WONDERFUL!

 

[blind_one]

Day 15,

Sh!t just got real I'm unstoppable

Almost got laid 4 days ago, didnt notice she was asking for it :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: , I still laugh thinking about how obvious that was.

That might be for the better though, I'll be sharper next time AND I had a good nights sleep before work :rockon:

 

[Demonicale]

On day 12 myself. Noticed MASSIVELY how my confidence is up and my eye contact with women is a lot better. I still want to improve on the eye contact and smiling at women walking towards me, as well as a few confidence issue's.

But it's all coming together (scuse the pun) ... it's frustrating when you have sooo much pent up energy with no outlet. It feels like i want to just rip women in half at how much i want to **** them ha ha

 

[n00bPimp]

I went a full 5 months on fap. 3 of those months were hard mode (no sex). I felt the same as you are feeling right now. I want to get back to it. But the summer heat and these girls walking around in little shorts is not helping.
Anyways stay strong!

 

[PeasantPlayer]

I got a question....did it matter who the last woman was you fapped to? Or were you like screw it?

 

[ovoxo]

Day 4. Thirst for my ex is rising (making more advances). Although I'd much rather be 2+ months of no fap and have no expectation of intimacy, this seems to make the hamster spin (female very used to attention). 2 months for me seems to be the "theirs something different about you but idk what it is" stage.. More attractive to ex, etc..

Need to start meditating again as well.

 

[matt428carr]

It's been a month for me today. Got laid once, but no fap, and just a little porn(just pictures, and barely any). I'm not sure how I feel.. kinda depressed a bit I think, not really horny, and not really interested in sex too much. Is this normal? I was feeling really good there for awhile, but recently.. I don't know.. just weird I guess.

Any info would be greatly appreciated.

 

[blind_one]

Day 15,

Sh!t just got real I'm unstoppable

Almost got laid 4 days ago, didnt notice she was asking for it :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: , I still laugh thinking about how obvious that was.

That might be for the better though, I'll be sharper next time AND I had a good nights sleep before work :rockon:

WELP. Didn't make it to Day 16 :crazy: I actually got laid so I'm back to square one right ??

 

[ovoxo]

It's been a month for me today. Got laid once, but no fap, and just a little porn(just pictures, and barely any). I'm not sure how I feel.. kinda depressed a bit I think, not really horny, and not really interested in sex too much. Is this normal? I was feeling really good there for awhile, but recently.. I don't know.. just weird I guess.

Any info would be greatly appreciated.

This is called the "flatline" phase. It doesn't last forever. But it's another reason to make sure you have a consistent healthy diet and workout routine to help keep your hormones more level thus giving you a steady supply of energy to work with. Enjoy it for now cause eventually the urges will come back even stronger but for shorter periods of time.

 

[wishyo]

I got a bit different problem actually..
I am kind of participating in this no fap challenge, but it unwillingly. Every since I started my new job and in particular started to date one girl, I lost any interest in fapping, my **** doesnt even get hard anymore, not even in the mornings... even to some pr0n which always turned me on...
I've been fapping since like 12 years on AVERAGE 1-2 times/day, now its my third week since I lost interest (to be precise, i forced myself to fap last week). Never ever ever ever in my life I had an issue with getting my **** hard lol..
Just decided to share this as people discuss fapping thing. Really worriesome..

 

[ovoxo]

^^^ Another case of "flatline", some are just more extreme than the next.

More info for everybody here: http://www.yourbrainonporn.com/porn-recovery-and-mysterious-flatline

 

[wishyo]

Wow, very interesting.. yea, totally looks like this with an exception that I started dating a girl recently, somehow these two events occured at the same time. My **** did show some signs of life when we kissed and stuff, but in "good ol' times" I probably would have hard ass boner
Thanks for sharing this article, indeed very interesting. Most of that stuff makes a hell lot of sense.

 

[020204]

I am on Day 17, been edging and watching some porn. Came close to busting a full nut, have managed to hold off. My computer caught a virus from a porn site which blocked my computer up. Finding that this is helping me with concentrating and overall well being.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

Started Monday.....4 days, my package is dead....nothing....limp LMAO!

 

[020204]

Day 21, not really sure this counts me out or not. I was on my bike yesterday and busted my nut while riding, have done this even in the gym from time to time, heard it is not that uncommon. Definetly wasn't fapping though.

 

[matt428carr]

Feeling better. I'm on day 37 or 38.. Had a bad flatline, but coming around. I find myself getting boners the last couple of days from very little stimulation(text, thoughts of sex, etc..).. Keeping away from the porn too, although it's tough. I just come here instead now

I do feel more alpha recently, and find myself not really giving a **** about chicks in general. Although the depression still hits me, it's also lightening up as well. This seems to be working...I don't feel like I'm going to crack and fap. Now I just need to get laid