"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Alvafe

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well I have to adimit I failed yesterday, no porn is still strong but well... day 1 now :p
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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crossedup said:
You seem to be feeling better, that's great man and I'm glad you were able to show her a fun sexy time! Looks like she can't wait to get some more!

Myself, head still hurts, tho I did get a boner this morning. The sign of better things to come? Certainly, anthing is better than this dull but constant headache. Now I just need to find some girls...

Yeah man, headache is completely gone now.
I'm really ****ing glad I didn't wait the 30 days I was planning on, and just had sex on the 21st day.
Totally worth it, still feel alpha etc..
Its like my ****/brain knew it wasnt my hand, so ****ed.

But honestly man, the sex WAS different than it was before.
I don't know if that's just because it was a month and a week since I last hooked up or if it was due to no fapping.
but for sure, sex feels different.
Instead of it being a constant spike in pleasure when you're about to nut, its more of a gradual, feel good process and slowly escalates. I was able to last way longer, so weird since I would have thought the opposite for sure.

Yeah, she's already texting me about seconds, and sent me a picture of how bruised her ass was, heh. Good night overall, no fap rocks.
Withdrawals will probably start hitting me in 2 - 3 days from what ive read.

I've just got to train my ****/brain that the only way to get pleasure is by hunting out the real thing.
 

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ugh im starting to get what you had mr.someoneelse. Freaking headache has been killing me for the past two days and my stomach hurts too. I think im around day 16-17 so that prolly why .
 

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I had a serious headache last night. I started to binge on some photos of Kate Upton and then it escalated to this website called theChive and then it lead to one of the tube sites. I masturbated and orgasmed 9:17PM and 9:30PM. Sucks, I'm pissed. I was drinking last night too so that didn't help.

I'm about to jog this morning and it's 5:43AM. I'm ready to get it in. Exercising all week.
 

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Just did my 20 minute jog session. I usually do these in the afternoon when the Sun is out/or after work. But I think I will start doing these jog sessions early in the morning. I feel annoyed right now. But I guess that's normal after a orgasm. You don't want to be bothered. Shower and then relaxing.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'm nearly at the end of day 8. Without porn its been easy so far.

However seeing Laura Robson in the Tennis final today put me to the test.

That 18 yr old girl has really nice legs, a cute face and sexy hair. And she has to bend over a lot.
 

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I'm in day 9.

bcolon, don't look at any porn sites at all, don't look at any hot youtube videos and don't even look at photos of hot girls.

Anything girls that you see should be real ones, it will make it a lot easier.

Looking at photos will escalate to eventual porn and masterbation.
 

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Day 23.

Since I had sex I stopped feeling withdrawals but I have also noticed a huge decrease in sex drive.
Really weird.
NOFap/NoPorn currently I feel virtually un-affected. No urges, desire, anything. I almost look back and find it weird that I did that before.
Not sure if the sex affected a lot of this, but yeah, my sex drive is definitely low.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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:cheer: It's been almost 5 weeks now :cheer:

I stopped having those emotional 'boosts' that I think I was recieving or I just got used to them. I feel like I could get some puzzy from this or that girl I'm interracting with but they don't appeal to me on any other level then that so I'm not really going that road : /, plus they are of average looks.

Still my thinking is sharp and clear just as I like it :)
 

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well even though i'm on my 3rd day (after my fail), my looks are still the same, at least some improvements are still here :)
 

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Ok guys, welcome to Mr. Dr. Groovy's clinic. Let me put on my white coat and glasses. Are we all ready? Ok, take off your pants. I mean. NO! THAT AIN'T NECESSARY. Well you can do it anyway. LET'S GO!

Mr.SomeoneElse said:
She lives like 25 minutes away from my apartment
and for SOME reason i didnt want to drive to pick her up haha.
Once the body's radar notices that there is an excessive amount of testosterone in the body, it will say... HEY, WAIT A MINUTE. TOO MUCH POWER. SHUT DOWN! PREVENT OVERLOAD!! DANGER WILL ROBINSON, DANGER. It immediately shut down it's production. You may become depressed, you'll get lower energy and confidence! But in a while, your body will re-loop it, on and on again. You may become sort of bipolar now. There's a lot of factors in this, but anyway, I suggest you to consider jacking off bro. This proves that the virtude is in the middle... :D Or, you can try to do a lot of exercise- no exercise, no testosterone, so the body will activate itself again with the benefits of exercise.
Or you can jack off but eat healthy as hell- eat fruits, nuts, seeds, soy, seaweed, beans, etc.
There may be a third option, since this is temporary for some people. Find a way to reactivate your body anyway, without exercising, make it start producing testosterone again. Maybe there is some food or something to do this... For some guys, these symptoms pass, so it could be in semen.
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Day 23.

Since I had sex I stopped feeling withdrawals but I have also noticed a huge decrease in sex drive.
Really weird.
NOFap/NoPorn currently I feel virtually un-affected. No urges, desire, anything. I almost look back and find it weird that I did that before.
Not sure if the sex affected a lot of this, but yeah, my sex drive is definitely low.
See?

blind_one said:
:cheer: It's been almost 5 weeks now :cheer:

I stopped having those emotional 'boosts' that I think I was recieving or I just got used to them. I feel like I could get some puzzy from this or that girl I'm interracting with but they don't appeal to me on any other level then that so I'm not really going that road : /, plus they are of average looks.

Still my thinking is sharp and clear just as I like it :)
I kill three birds with one stone! Go DR GROOVY, YOU'RE ON FIRE. YOU GET LESS TESTOSTERONE- LESS EMOTIONAL BOOSTS. But you preserved brain power since you haven't ejaculated in a while. What is in semen that can make you concentrate? Hmm! Let me see some answers. ;)

I sometimes get what you guys get, sometimes I get blue balls tho! It's worse!! :D

Wait! I'm socializing now! That ain't what a doctor is supposed to do. That's too personal. Forget that. That'll be 200 bucks each! Thank you, come again!

PS: There may be holes in my post, since I am, of course, not a real doctor. As said, some guys get "withdrawals" but they just last a while. Why do you guys think that could that be? Anyway, I meant that thing about the 300 bucks each.
 

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three weeks in and I must say I'm not feeling any of the withdrawals that others have mentioned...Fingers crossed though! Only going to nut during sex/ with a girl from now on :)
 

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I am 2 weeks in and have had no serious withdrawls, minus the first few days being mad enough to punch a baby.

But I noticed a huge boost in the gym performance wise, and I wake up with a raging one every morning reminisant of my junior high days.

Has anyone seen the Seinfeld episode where George stops having sex and suddenly he gets super smart and productive? All I can think about while scrolling this thread.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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metamorphose said:
Has anyone seen the Seinfeld episode where George stops having sex and suddenly he gets super smart and productive? All I can think about while scrolling this thread.
haha! No man I really want to see that now though hahaha

The withdrawals didn't start until day 20-21+
currently i'm just sitting at a decreased sex drive and trying to get over the withdrawals.
With the lack of sex drive it makes it a lot easier, allthough I do feel like fapping just to make myself feel 'better'.
But from what ive read everyone who's done that felt absolutely **** after relapsing, so i'm just going to wait it out. staystrongbro
 

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Tomorrow will be day 10, I'm not getting more social or anything though.

Girls still showing nill interest.
 

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its been prolly a month now in total on no masturbation , and I feel like I only get boners when I wake up in the morning , or I intently think about sexual encounters ive had in the past last time i tried this i got horny alot easier , now it seems thats not happening , or maybe i past that phase and dident even realize it , andf on top of it all the clubs around here are pretty much empty because the college classes haven't started yet ... meh
 

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I've gotten boners before and I jerked it like 5 times then I quit and let it go soft on its own. I didn't ejaculate/kum.

Do I have to start all over?
 

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Eternal_water said:
I'm in day 9.

bcolon, don't look at any porn sites at all, don't look at any hot youtube videos and don't even look at photos of hot girls.

Anything girls that you see should be real ones, it will make it a lot easier.

Looking at photos will escalate to eventual porn and masterbation.
Can I at least watch TV shows? Or should I abstain everything media related and just expect the real thing?

Also Groovy. Everything you said is right. But your body will produce to much testosterone but will eventually go back to normal levels anyway. That's called Homeostasis. With masturbation. It's a constant decrease and that's when energy levels go extremely low rather than returning to normal levels, Homeostasis on its own.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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