Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
3 weeks in.Purefilth said:Almost 2 weeks, plenty of energy, feel sharp. Approaches seem to go better too - smoother - anyone else notice this?
Good job guys. It is true that regular masturbation can affect your energy levels. Here are some facts:Purefilth said:Almost 2 weeks, plenty of energy, feel sharp. Approaches seem to go better too - smoother - anyone else notice this?
NO MEAST!!!Meast1525 said:I got to day 8 yesterday and failed. Starting over today. Ill tell you this though.. as soon as I got up this morning I felt tired lethargic... I lost all my "spark" I was riding for the last 8 days..
I would Destroy that ....... perfect girl next doorEternal_water said:
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
We already talked about this.bcolon said:So are you suppose to stay away from all media stimulants. Be it movies, tv shows, magazines that have sexual stimulant images. I mean when are you suppose to draw an end and what would be considering edging if your not looking at porn?
I think it depends on the boundaries you set yourself in the challenge, I'd count it as sex, not fapping.Blue Hef said:After 4 days of not "fapping", I had sex and I noticed that I lasted WAY longer during sex. Idk if that was due to not fapping or what? lol...BUT when i pulled out to nut (i don't use condoms with my gf), i started stroking my own d*ck and busted on her stomach...is that still considered fapping still? And then later on that night i n*tted again from a *******/handjob...does this count?
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.