"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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No excersice = Feeling Bad?

DJsomeday

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Hi i think this is the appropiate forum for this since its related to excersicing!.

First of all my routine combines cardio and stuff lifting some weights(sp?) and also a little dance dance revolution and whatnot :D its varied and it has helped me lose like 40 kg since i started (i was 113kg at one time [my worst ever] and i'm 78 now), nevertheless i'm still a little fat and i'm still making my routines everyday and my body feels great everytime i finish it but when i don't work out i feel awful like my body says "hey i have all this energy why aren't you using it?" or something, thing is i love to work out but today i fell at a soccer game (damn :p) and my knee hurts a bit, i don't know if i'll be able to work out but if i don't i'm gonna end up feeling like sh!t! and tomorrow i have to go to study and i want to be in a good mood... any tips?

PS: it's like i feel i fight a battle every day, a battle against lazyness, and when i don't work out... It's like if i had lost, no matter the reason.

Thanks in advance :)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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dopexile

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Hey there... lack of exercise can cause a chemical imbalance that will affect your mood... so that could definitely have an effect on your mood.
 

Mjazz

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Yo man seriously just force yourself to do something everyday and have an intense exercise session every 2-3 days. Pretty soon it will become second nature, you will have energy all the time and you will WANT to do it. Just keep doing it man.
 

dj ben2

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4 sure man u gotta love the feel good feeling around ur body after doin heavy squats or leg press for some it doesnt last long but for me it lasts all day
 

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non-impact cardio since your knee is hurt, ie swimming elliptical bike etc or circuit train but without lower body, or work through the pain just as long as you know it's pain and not an injury once you warm up you won't even feel it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJsomeday

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thanks guys i took a pill and i could do all my routine! never felt better:D thanks for the advice & opinions :D!.
 

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wen i first started out to the gym i would have to get my mum to force me off the cpu and bich at me till i went to the gym for the first 2 weeks .. now im a month in and im goin twice a day an hour of cardio each visit morning and night and you cant get me out of the place i feel so awesome wenever i leave
 

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djben i can relate to you, when i dont go i feel really bad, but when i workout and take a shower next i feel like im reborn. i think its because working out reduces your stress.
 
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