"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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No dates+No ass+Boring life=Intraining

whyme2008

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what am i to do?i am very glad you guys have this discussion forum.joseph matthews only interested in selling his books but they do not make themselves available for personal talks.

and that is what i need-one to one coaching.

i might use a line to start a conversation,but i dont think i know how to continue it or make it interesting.

i have been calling this girl a few days now and all she does is avoid me since we met one time.

she is forever "busy".i know she is working,but i do not see signs of interest.

someone help me out pls
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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whyme2008

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again swingcat is for the american folks like yourself.i am from the caribbean.

and some women over here are not attracted to ****y and funny men.

they are actually turned off by it.

i could never "translate"what JM said to the people over here.i do not see how it can work.

and my dating life sucks.
 
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