"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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No dates+No ass+Boring life=Intraining

whyme2008

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what am i to do?i am very glad you guys have this discussion forum.joseph matthews only interested in selling his books but they do not make themselves available for personal talks.

and that is what i need-one to one coaching.

i might use a line to start a conversation,but i dont think i know how to continue it or make it interesting.

i have been calling this girl a few days now and all she does is avoid me since we met one time.

she is forever "busy".i know she is working,but i do not see signs of interest.

someone help me out pls
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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whyme2008

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again swingcat is for the american folks like yourself.i am from the caribbean.

and some women over here are not attracted to ****y and funny men.

they are actually turned off by it.

i could never "translate"what JM said to the people over here.i do not see how it can work.

and my dating life sucks.
 
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