No convo whatsoever...

[Ottocinclus]

OK, a bit of background:

A woman who's loosely connected to my friend group suddenly got flirty with me and then just as suddenly stopped. After that, I learned that she got a new boyfriend. OK, nothing new here. She just "picked" somebody else.

The thing is, now she doesn't even talk to me--like at all. No "Friend Zone". No nothing. She talks to everybody else we know though. She greets me with a "Hi" or a wave when we see each other, but If I engage in normal social chit chat, she ignores me and just walks off LOL The last time I interacted with her, she came up to me and waved first. There were others around us that soon left, and then it got awkward with just us two. She looked up at the sky and closed her eyes (she had a grin on her face too) as if being overwhelmed by something. I said something just to break the weirdness, but she said nothing and just walked off.

Super bizarre. There are probably variables that I haven't conveyed, but what do you guys think of this? I'm guessing that she's still attracted to me and doesn't want to mess things up with her boyfriend?

 

[Gamisch]

Thats why I love women... they are soooooo much more up to game than men are.

She ignores you because you got feelings for her. Enough to be wondering and pondering to make a thread about her. It's not even about her liking you ,but the other way around. If she liked you she would've ducked your sick.

Women( p00sy) are like cats. They come and go on THEIR OWN according. If you would be "that guy" you'd recognise that and act accordingly. You should keep it at a simple " hi and bey" and be focused on the next batch of women. She had her chance, didn't take it , and that should be HER loss, not yours!

My golden rule is I dont miss people who dont miss me!!!

Who cares what she does or doesn't do? F HER .

 

[BackInTheGame78]

The answer is to find someone hotter than her and make sure she comes with you to an event the next time you know she will be there.

 

[Ottocinclus]

Thats why I love women... they are soooooo much more up to game than men are.

She ignores you because you got feelings for her. Enough to be wondering and pondering to make a thread about her. It's not even about her liking you ,but the other way around. If she liked you she would've ducked your sick.

Women( p00sy) are like cats. They come and go on THEIR OWN according. If you would be "that guy" you'd recognise that and act accordingly. You should keep it at a simple " hi and bey" and be focused on the next batch of women. She had her chance, didn't take it , and that should be HER loss, not yours!

My golden rule is I dont miss people who dont miss me!!!

Who cares what she does or doesn't do? F HER .

True, but the whole thing is, well, weird.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

True, but the whole thing is, well, weird.

It does sound weird and like she is very socially awkward.

 

[Clockwerk50]

It could be a couple of things:

1. You said or did something that offended her or gave her the ick, or someone told her something negative about you.
   
   
2. You're just an acquaintance. Since you're only loosely connected through mutual friends, she may simply see you as someone she knows, not someone she wants to have regular conversations with. A quick hi is polite, but beyond that, she doesn't feel the need to socialize one-on-one.
   
   
3. According to hypergamy theory, a woman gives most of her attention to the man she sees as her best romantic prospect, while the rest of the suitors receive little or none of it. If that's the case, she may have shifted all of her attention to her new boyfriend and chosen to distance herself from other men.

It's impossible to tell for sure since we don't know her, and we're not her. Beyond your own observations, everything else is just speculation.

 

[Kang the Conqueror]

If a woman’s heart speaks in riddles, they should not expect a man to decipher them. Those worthy of pursuit make their allegiance known. The uncertain are left to the silence they created.