RicBoy
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Sep 29, 2016
- Messages
- 534
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- Age
- 42
Ex dumped me 3 times during a period of 3,5 years, we dated all together for 2 years. I got her back twice wrongly by breaking NC. Last time after 5 months NC, she was the one contacting me after she heard I spoke to one of our mutual friends. We hangout 2 months, had sex, and agreed being friends with benefits.
Couple of weeks ago I called her, she said she started seeing someone couple of days ago so no more ****ing around and is looking for a relationship and real love (she is a single mom) and knows already with me is only sex because she doesn't love me. Im ok just with sex even though I have some feelings. She said she would call if it wouldn't work out with this new guy or if in the future she would be single to resume friends with benefits. She also said it would feel weird to talk to me while she is seeing someone, so for me not to call her. I said ok... Should I go NC forever? Or maybe check in on her once a month or so to check if she is single?
Couple of weeks ago I called her, she said she started seeing someone couple of days ago so no more ****ing around and is looking for a relationship and real love (she is a single mom) and knows already with me is only sex because she doesn't love me. Im ok just with sex even though I have some feelings. She said she would call if it wouldn't work out with this new guy or if in the future she would be single to resume friends with benefits. She also said it would feel weird to talk to me while she is seeing someone, so for me not to call her. I said ok... Should I go NC forever? Or maybe check in on her once a month or so to check if she is single?