"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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No Contact = No Masturbation

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I dont know if this idea was thrown already but as the title suggests, no contact means no masturbation.

Why?

UNDER SPECIAL CONDITIONS like oneitis, everytime you whack off you bring an image of your ex. For the sake of mental and emotional improvement, no contact means "not seeing" the girl, even when jerking off.

DATA?

I have a high libido and very sick with oneitis. That is a deadly combination because I find myself in an endless loop. I feel like **** when I 'm done and plus the psychological effects of over masturbation will dig you deeper. You can search this forum and numerous sites to see what I mean.

SOLUTION?

No more masturbation. With no contact overtime you will be yourself again. This is harder than just only no contact but its worth it. Not only do you cure your oneitis but also disciplines your desire and strengthens your will.

No Contact till I die. No Masturbation till I die (or no more oneitis).

Wake up and realise you are a MAN.


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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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that's a very good idea. I completely agree with the oneitis point of view. I'm trying the no masturbation even though I do not have a oneitis, one week so far.
 
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i can atest to what the man is saying.

i broke with my ex 6 weeks ago, big deal for a week then it all calmed. but as soon as i fire she pops back in to my head.

weird.
 
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I think that the whole concept of "no contact" has been taken too far. It was initially created as a way to stop newbies from doing stupid sh!t, e.g. calling up their ex and trying to get back together. It doesn't need to be some all consuming way of life until you get over your ex. You want to touch yourself? Go for it. Don't let some EX-girlfriend stop you.
 
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a MAN does not follow masturbation guidelines.......a MAN does what he wants, when he wants, and as much as he wants!!

a man WILL whack off thinking about his ex's, and then go fvck 3 new girls, all in one week, and he WILL lay down to sleep thinking "I had some great pieces of azz in the past, and damn I continue to bring the goods no matter what, i am daaaaaa man baby, DA MAN!!!"

A man does not fear jerkin off because his feelings are going to get hurt by bringing up memories about some wh0re who he used to "love"

fvck off with this kind of thinking already, this is the DON JUAN forum
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Rescue Mission said:
a MAN does not follow masturbation guidelines.......a MAN does what he wants, when he wants, and as much as he wants!!

a man WILL whack off thinking about his ex's, and then go fvck 3 new girls, all in one week, and he WILL lay down to sleep thinking "I had some great pieces of azz in the past, and damn I continue to bring the goods no matter what, i am daaaaaa man baby, DA MAN!!!"

A man does not fear jerkin off because his feelings are going to get hurt by bringing up memories about some wh0re who he used to "love"

fvck off with this kind of thinking already, this is the DON JUAN forum
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Golden words here.
 
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