"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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No Contact = No Masturbation

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I dont know if this idea was thrown already but as the title suggests, no contact means no masturbation.

Why?

UNDER SPECIAL CONDITIONS like oneitis, everytime you whack off you bring an image of your ex. For the sake of mental and emotional improvement, no contact means "not seeing" the girl, even when jerking off.

DATA?

I have a high libido and very sick with oneitis. That is a deadly combination because I find myself in an endless loop. I feel like **** when I 'm done and plus the psychological effects of over masturbation will dig you deeper. You can search this forum and numerous sites to see what I mean.

SOLUTION?

No more masturbation. With no contact overtime you will be yourself again. This is harder than just only no contact but its worth it. Not only do you cure your oneitis but also disciplines your desire and strengthens your will.

No Contact till I die. No Masturbation till I die (or no more oneitis).

Wake up and realise you are a MAN.


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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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that's a very good idea. I completely agree with the oneitis point of view. I'm trying the no masturbation even though I do not have a oneitis, one week so far.
 

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i can atest to what the man is saying.

i broke with my ex 6 weeks ago, big deal for a week then it all calmed. but as soon as i fire she pops back in to my head.

weird.
 

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I think that the whole concept of "no contact" has been taken too far. It was initially created as a way to stop newbies from doing stupid sh!t, e.g. calling up their ex and trying to get back together. It doesn't need to be some all consuming way of life until you get over your ex. You want to touch yourself? Go for it. Don't let some EX-girlfriend stop you.
 
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a MAN does not follow masturbation guidelines.......a MAN does what he wants, when he wants, and as much as he wants!!

a man WILL whack off thinking about his ex's, and then go fvck 3 new girls, all in one week, and he WILL lay down to sleep thinking "I had some great pieces of azz in the past, and damn I continue to bring the goods no matter what, i am daaaaaa man baby, DA MAN!!!"

A man does not fear jerkin off because his feelings are going to get hurt by bringing up memories about some wh0re who he used to "love"

fvck off with this kind of thinking already, this is the DON JUAN forum
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Rescue Mission said:
a MAN does not follow masturbation guidelines.......a MAN does what he wants, when he wants, and as much as he wants!!

a man WILL whack off thinking about his ex's, and then go fvck 3 new girls, all in one week, and he WILL lay down to sleep thinking "I had some great pieces of azz in the past, and damn I continue to bring the goods no matter what, i am daaaaaa man baby, DA MAN!!!"

A man does not fear jerkin off because his feelings are going to get hurt by bringing up memories about some wh0re who he used to "love"

fvck off with this kind of thinking already, this is the DON JUAN forum
Golden words here.
 
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