Well, it has been three months since we broke up. He felt we were too different to be together, and he felt we should just be friends to which I agreed. He also said he is seeing someone else. That was three months ago, and we haven't spoken or communicated since. We had a great relationship, atleast I thought so, but we had some disagreements. My question is, after tell me this...he has now gone out of his way to avoid seeing me or running into me. He quit the gym we both went to, and stopped going to all the places where we both went. He was a gym fanatic and very into keeping in shape. If he is over me, and indifferent, why the need to stop going places where we both went?
He was the one that messed up the relationship after all, although I wasn't completely blameless, but I accepted my part in the breakdown of it, and while I was hurt, I accepted it. I didn't fall to pieces in front of him. I just said okay, no hard feelings, atleast we can be friends. I certainly wasn't going to chase him. I have also maintained no contact for the last three months. No phone calls, emails or anything of the sort. We haven't seen each other in the three months either.
He was quick to tell me that he was seeing someone and he no longer felt we were compatible.
So what is going on in his head?
He was the one that messed up the relationship after all, although I wasn't completely blameless, but I accepted my part in the breakdown of it, and while I was hurt, I accepted it. I didn't fall to pieces in front of him. I just said okay, no hard feelings, atleast we can be friends. I certainly wasn't going to chase him. I have also maintained no contact for the last three months. No phone calls, emails or anything of the sort. We haven't seen each other in the three months either.
He was quick to tell me that he was seeing someone and he no longer felt we were compatible.
So what is going on in his head?