"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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No contact after break up Did I handle it properly???

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My girlfriend/neighbor broke up with me 3 days ago and contacted me after I went to store on the second day and told me she was happy I got what I wanted/needed.I only went to store.She thought I was out all night.She invited me over on the 4th day as friends only.I told her now way unless we were a couple or at least in a intimate relationship.I don't want to let her go.She told me she didn't know what she wanted.I told her I couldn't hang out as friends only.She told me to come over if I wanted.I did not go.What would you guys do??
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You handled it right. She broke up with you, now you want her to see the consequences of her action. You’re out and gone. Keep it that way unless she reconsiders it. Whether she does or doesn’t, find another women and invite her over to your place for a dinner and/or a movie…
Live your own life and give her the opportunity to miss your attention, it was her choice…
 
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I knew she would start contacting you after she noticed your car wasn't there and you were out doing ****. She invited you over as friends only? This, from a 40yr old woman Lol. You are doing well so far. I have a rule is to never get involved with a neighbor, **** turns ugly and then you have to deal with it every time you step outside your house.
 
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Sounds like a girl in junior high.

Either go nc for life and get back your sanity or keep letting her push pull you to crazy town.
 
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