"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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no confidence and boring

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I suddenly realised that i would bore me if i was talking to myself.
Realistically if u went up to someone and began talking about their family and school they're gona get bored quickly.
What do all u dj's actually talk about with women????!!!!
also at a party this evening there was one guy in particular who was unbelievably confident and all the girls liked him. But then there was a guy more like myself who is quiet and confident and he's got a fit woman.To be honest i don't like acting the tit and dancing about the place as i simply don't enjoy it.
I realised that i have put girls on a higher pedestal and i become very shy when around them.

However if i knew exciting conversation topics Then i believe i would be grand talking to woman.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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However, if you stopped deluding yourself into thinking you're something you're not (or not liking something you've never been) I would be more inclined to help you.

Moreover, you are feeding your little imaginary world here and that is something I can't help you with. Perhaps the bible, top right, will be more inclined to put up with your sh*t.
 
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ouch..but right...

there is no "if only" ****...thats just a cop out. "Great conversation" isnt taught, theres no magic topic, theres no fool proof 100% get laid everytime conversation technique, like said above, read the bible, it gives great advice on how to keep a convo goin, how to make it interesting, how to lead it to other places etc. read kid
 
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Just know what to say wont help if youre shy now will it??? I dont think so. You have to get over your shyness before youre big pimpin y0!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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