no confidence and boring

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I suddenly realised that i would bore me if i was talking to myself.
Realistically if u went up to someone and began talking about their family and school they're gona get bored quickly.
What do all u dj's actually talk about with women????!!!!
also at a party this evening there was one guy in particular who was unbelievably confident and all the girls liked him. But then there was a guy more like myself who is quiet and confident and he's got a fit woman.To be honest i don't like acting the tit and dancing about the place as i simply don't enjoy it.
I realised that i have put girls on a higher pedestal and i become very shy when around them.

However if i knew exciting conversation topics Then i believe i would be grand talking to woman.
 

LikRetsam

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However, if you stopped deluding yourself into thinking you're something you're not (or not liking something you've never been) I would be more inclined to help you.

Moreover, you are feeding your little imaginary world here and that is something I can't help you with. Perhaps the bible, top right, will be more inclined to put up with your sh*t.
 

MidwestFreek

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ouch..but right...

there is no "if only" ****...thats just a cop out. "Great conversation" isnt taught, theres no magic topic, theres no fool proof 100% get laid everytime conversation technique, like said above, read the bible, it gives great advice on how to keep a convo goin, how to make it interesting, how to lead it to other places etc. read kid
 

oakraiderz2

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Just know what to say wont help if youre shy now will it??? I dont think so. You have to get over your shyness before youre big pimpin y0!
 
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