"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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No competition...but I still choke up

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Im really pissed at myself now. I play tennis and all summer we have practice 3x a week. The good part is that we practice with the girs too :) . And the good thing is that the tennis team isnt big so there no competition, and not to sound ****y but Im one if not the best looking guy on the team. But anyway long story made short, one of the sexiest chicks in school is on the girl's team, and I've choked up TWICE whenever I got close to her. WTF?? Seriously if I fail with her then Im okay with that, doesn't mean I want to though. But still, anyone know any openers or w/e? I need to stand out somehow. I also catch her looking at me throughout practice. If I wait too long my chance will be gone =/. Maybe I just need to sack up, but still...help pls?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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umm...bump...anyone?
 
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There are no openers that can help you.

How about being authentic?

I bet you no other guy came up to her and told her how nervous he was about coming up and talking to her but you had to do it or you wouldn't be able to look atyourself the next morning. You could say anything you want as long as you hold your frame.

Strong frame!

Do that and you will succeed.
 
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Yea your right. I'll just be authentic. I noticed the guys and the girls dont really mingle lol. Guess we're all a bunch of AFCs smacking balls aroung lol.
 
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