"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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No competition...but I still choke up

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Chrom3y

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Im really pissed at myself now. I play tennis and all summer we have practice 3x a week. The good part is that we practice with the girs too :) . And the good thing is that the tennis team isnt big so there no competition, and not to sound ****y but Im one if not the best looking guy on the team. But anyway long story made short, one of the sexiest chicks in school is on the girl's team, and I've choked up TWICE whenever I got close to her. WTF?? Seriously if I fail with her then Im okay with that, doesn't mean I want to though. But still, anyone know any openers or w/e? I need to stand out somehow. I also catch her looking at me throughout practice. If I wait too long my chance will be gone =/. Maybe I just need to sack up, but still...help pls?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Chrom3y

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umm...bump...anyone?
 
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There are no openers that can help you.

How about being authentic?

I bet you no other guy came up to her and told her how nervous he was about coming up and talking to her but you had to do it or you wouldn't be able to look atyourself the next morning. You could say anything you want as long as you hold your frame.

Strong frame!

Do that and you will succeed.
 
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Yea your right. I'll just be authentic. I noticed the guys and the girls dont really mingle lol. Guess we're all a bunch of AFCs smacking balls aroung lol.
 
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