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[TheDarkSaint]

Hey guys,

I live in a small town in the middle of nowhere (about 1500 people), so dating can be...difficult. However, I'm trying hard to be a DJ so I'm not giving up!

I do need some advice and some support. I'm hiring a friend from college days to come up and work with my kids (I'm a teacher). She's a HB7.9 and I used to have oneitis over her. We all know the familer story, so I won't reitterate it here except to say that I totaly broke off contact with her for a year before talking to her again.

She seems very interested in coming up and working with my kids and even suggested that she spend the night at my place instead of my school picking up a hotel room for her. I've kept contact at a minimum with just one phone call and 2 internet chats (both under 15 mins, I'm proud of myself) to tease her and try out some of the material on this site.

I'd put her interest level at around medium.

I need to know if this is a good idea or bad idea. Am I setting myself up for disaster?

 

[Kaptain]

Out of the billions of women out there that you could've started fresh with why did you hire one that already has preconvinced ideas about you?

Your not setting yourself up for disaster if you can keep on open mind that nothing may come of this.

 

[TheDarkSaint]

I do have other motives than some stinky pinky in hiring her. As isolated as I am, it's very difficult to find good people to hire on spesific instruments. Despite my feelings towards her, she is one of the best on a budget my school can afford.

 

[wheelin&dealin]

Originally posted by Kaptain


Out of the billions of women out there that you could've started fresh with why did you hire one that already has preconvinced ideas about you?

To true. The best way to move forward is to throw out the rearview mirror and drive the car.

 

[TheDarkSaint]

I'm begining to agree.

Which makes me wonder if I should just get her a hotel room and not let her sleep at my place like she wanted to.

 

[Kaptain]

Don't go all asexual on us now.

You've laid the tracks now. You have to follow them to see where they lead.

 

[TheDarkSaint]

Ok. Thank for the kick to butt. I'm not a neuter and I won't act like it.

I need some help coming up with 3 or 4 quick, simple guidelines to follow while she is here.

I'm thinking along the lines of

1. Don't talk so much

2. I'm out of ideas...


Help?

 

[Kaptain]

Originally posted by TheDarkSaint
I need some help coming up with 3 or 4 quick, simple guidelines to follow while she is here.

Act
Be decisive. No. "I don't know" or "What you you want to do?". If you say you'll do something... do it.
Bring her to you a good start. If anything is to happen you will need to initiate it.

Live In The Now
Living in the past is boring. Whats past is past and whats done is done. There MUST be some fun/interesting/exciting happening NOW.

Don't Be Afraid Of Her
Tease her. Touch her. Disagree with her. This in no way a rude to her.