"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"no cell i got drunk and drop it"

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Well, I'm just starting with this whole DJ thing. I read several books by DeAngelo just this past weekend and I already went from chasing one girl to being chased by three, over the net, myspace...

There is this one chick, she's real hot, stripper, working her ass off daddy's sick. She's really into me, and I really got her attention with this thing. So today I went on to ask her number, just to turn the things up a notch. I get this response: "no cell i got drunk and drop it". Basically I've tried everything and she won't give it to me, and more I ask the less attention she gave me (I asked like 3 times, making jokes each time). Then she pretended she had a friend over (male friend). I told her that I don't care, it's non of my business, and that I'm not falling for it, them I made an insulting joke on her page, told her she should ask BOTH guys to use protection and put a drama lamma picture up.... So that's where I'm at.

Question is: what do I do now? Do I wait for response, or do I email her tomorrow. She loves to screw with people, and I really turn it around after I read double your dating, but she has some tricks up her sleeves I guess.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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unorthodox said:
Basically I've tried everything and she won't give it to me...
Sounds like game over to me, sorry.

Besides what are you doing trying to date a stripper?
 

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You're done dude, next.

Strippers are friendly. Don't mistake interest for her trying to get business off you.

Look for some more tail dude.
 

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She's only been doing it several month, before that married 5 years. She's hot, so why not. Her father has cancer...... Thing is, of all the men on there, I am #1 on her page. How good of a chance is it that she's just playing me?
 

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I should say she was a waitress for half a year, and only now she started giving lap dances. OR something like that. No poll dancing.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Alright. I actually have no problem with that right now. A week ago I'd be whipping like a wuss. hahahaha Thanks for the advice.
 
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